I was a member of the Dirty Sole Society around 1996-1997. I called Maggie Scott and another female member who lived in Colorado but was from Connecticut. I contributed a list of barefooter-related websites. I was ejected by Paul Lucas who was very upset I did not first email the two women in question and that the URL's were mostly of female barefooters. I have no ill will towards gay men, however, if the DSS (now SBL) was a group of people with similar likes and (barefoot) preferences, what is wrong with contacting other members who willingly shared their contact info? I don't want this to turn into a SBL bashing session. Also, not everyone has the ability and/or comfort of being full-time barefoot (work, etc.) and posting pictures of themselves as such. On my MySpace page, I emphatically state I am NOT a foot fetishist and have had to Deny/Block many such inquiries despite my very clear warning. I simply prefer going barefoot, I like barefoot women and to me dirty feet are a sign of someone who is dedicated to being barefoot and not just slipping off shoes on the beach or grass in the park.
You mentioned that before. I think thats not a foot fetish....anyone who goes through that kind of effort has a psych problem....a major one....