my world has come crashing down

pshawr, you have us to help you with your schoolwork
seroiusly though, feel free to pm me over shit. i wont know it all (especially math/science, been ages since i took those) but whatever, well help ya as we can

 

I'm so sorry, green faerie. You don't deserve any of that shit.

It might be for the best that you go to live with your grandma.
Hope everything works out for you.

 

I'm really sorry you're having to deal with such shit, Ms. Faerie. I really like you and think you're awesome and it sucks that your mom can't keep her shit together enough to realize just how awesome you truly are. Go stay with your grandma, your mom will realize how different it is without you around and she'll change her tone. My parents and I were butting heads again (though nowhere near as badly as it seems you've got it) and when I moved out of the house, it took a couple of weeks, but my parents will now bend over backwards to make sure I get to work on time and get my grocery shopping and stuff done after work. Sometimes it takes losing someone to truly appreciate what you had.

 

maybe your mom tries to blame you for her own problems
coz what ya say sounds really crazy - does she have any grounds to abuse you or treat in such a way?
anyway, no
the fact that she wants ya to be another person isnt a good reason to make your life a nightmare...
which deeds of yours usu provoke her aggressive responses?
smtimes owr parents just blame us for what they have failed to do, for their own mistakes...

did ya try to ignore her attacks?

 

it may be that your mum isnt completely normal mentally perhaps she has a disorder, could be narcissistic disorder, they constantly put others down to make themselves feel better and are master manipulators.

it was many years of fights, accusations and death threats before i realised my sister had serious mental problems and since ive realised this, it's made it a lot easier to deal with her outbursts.

there's this great book i read called "They fuck you up" about how your parents fuck you up, it's actually really interesting, i recommend it.

 

This is a very good question... Green_Faerie, you're a minor and she is treating you badly... and this is not fair, in any way, but in this way it is legally wrong I think... Of course, she's your mother, and maybe you can't get the law on her, but... well, it makes one think.

 

Yeah, verbal abuse is abuse nonetheless and abuse is illegal.