My experience has been that if she wants to be surprised, she says she wants to be surprised. But when she's that vague (saying just that she 'can't or doesn't want to tell you') it's because she's embarrassed or ashamed of what she wants. Usually the shame is unwarranted.
Why? you've never wanted to be taken care of in any way by a man? Not having any worries or responsibilities and having all your worries taken off you shoulders? To be held and protected from the world? Realize that there are varying degrees of daughter/daddy play. So at what level does the play become too disturbing? Have you ever played the game that got too close to disturbing for you and you had to pull back?
you know i'm male, right? no, i don't particularly want to be taken care of, and on the other side, i think the idea of fucking my own offspring is pretty gross. you don't have to be a parent to take care of someone.
Nope. I wasn't aware of that. So disregard my ?? about you wanting to be taken care of by a man. I think you're taking the whole daddy/daughter thing a little too literally. But whatever. I guess the point is that there are some people out there who enjoy such role play. And it's not about adults having sex w/ children even though you might see it as such.
It's not only normal it's beautiful. It leads to high self esteem, a strong father-daughter relationship and an unwillingness to accept poor men as lovers. Women who do not have close relationships to their dads...who didn't grow up in awe and love with crushes on their dad are generally very desperate for male attention and will take anything that comes there way. I'm shocked I have to explain. You don't agree. What's it to you?
Also, it's called modeling. Are you guys for real? It's like I'm talking to people in the dark ages who don't understand psycho-sexual development.
I just want to point out or clarify that I don't see anything wrong w/ a man and woman involved w/ daughter/daddy role play. Heck or even mother/son role play. I don't feel that it's ok for family members to have sex w/ each other.
My wife who was my girlfriend at the time told me that she loved bondage, would read about it and go on sites as her porn yet never had it performed on her ... I asked her what she liked most and never told me ... so I placed my finest sex organ to work, my mind, and played with her in various ways - experimented & researched her body & reactions always mixing it up - we had several years of fine bondage sex to the point that she became so comfortable with me that she loved it when I bound her and shaved her pussy bald. So have fun & use your mind
Ask her if she wants to light your package on fire. Ask her if you guys can build a robot together and then poop on it. Brazilian Fart porn (google it) Maybe you two can take some language classes like russian or japanese and then fuck in another language.
I would have to say that pushing the boundries a little bit at a time to find out what she likes might work. A little pull of her hair, a light spank, and just see how she reacts. If you know her well you should be able to judge her reactions to things and move further with the things she likes, and forget the things she doesn't.
Fuck it man just Donkey Punch her. If you are feeling really bold go for the Tony Danza. Stay Brown, Rev J