New girlfriend's vagina very slack

I call BS on your reply! There are things that she can do that don’t require surgery!! What century are you from??! There are sex toys that he could mention to her as being possibly fun and asking her if she’s interested in trying them! Ben wa balls and other toys require she keep them inside her which would strengthen her vaginal muscles. He could approach it as a fun game that only they know about when they go out to dinner, etc. He could encourage her and be very attentive to her, letting her know that he thinks its hot that she has a toy in her while they’re out in public! There is no cause for shaming her but rather take it as an opportunity to enjoy something new together and actually have fun with it! Get her input about other toys and ideas about where they could have fun sharing this experience together!! I have always been tight but it’s not about her being “less than” since she isn’t. It’s about making her excited about being with him and sharing things with him that end up making them both happy!

 

I felt as though he was the one being harsh! He basically said that outside of surgery, nothing else could be done. I stand by my opinion and advice that they could take the opportunity to get closer by sharing other experiences together that ultimately would give him the result he was wanting. Meanwhile, as a couple, by talking about the various toys together and making it a fun part of their relationship, it would bring them closer as a couple because their communication would be improving the more they shared together. For him to say that outside of surgery, the situation would not improve was not an encouraging message! Obviously the OP had an issue with it or he wouldn’t have asked for advice. To be told to just think something and that would change the entire situation is not even practical. He ignored what was bothering the OP and just basically said for him to accept it. If that was an option for him, I am pretty sure that he would have already done that. It was obvious he deeply cared about this woman. I tried to offer a practical solution that would enhance their relationship and their experiences together as a couple. Lester appeared to blow off his concerns and that bothered me. I try hard to listen to what others need and offer helpful advice. I respectfully agree to disagree with your opinion on my reply. I stand by it because I offered a fun solution that would draw them closer as a couple. Telling someone to just accept it was very rude in my opinion. It blatantly disregarded the OP concerns as not being valid. I believe that they are valid. I hope you have a great rest of your day.

 

My first girlfriend was very wide down there. Cavernous even. It almost felt like having sex with a warm glass of water. She was always wet. You know what though? It was the hottest sex I ever had. She was tremendous in bed. She was game for anything.

My second one was the tightest and wettest i ever had. She felt exquisite down there but she was a real dud in bed. She'd practically lie down on her back and wait for me to get on top of her and just pump away. It got lame real quick.

My wife is somewhere in between and we had 3 kids. She's fairly tight considering. She's not exactly a bomb in bed but she's OK.

So of all 3 women that I bedded, my first girlfriend was the best one in bed and yet the looser of the 3. Vagina size for me doesn't really matter.

 

The first response about having the OP fix his attitude and thinking, feelings about the looseness is wrong.

Tell me about something you don’t like, ……
Well, I expect you to like it now.
You hate mushrooms or cigarette for example, same as with sex. You like it or you don’t.

Regardless of how old the post is and whether OP moved on or not.
If still with the same woman and doing fine, great. If with someone else and happier, great.