Oh God, I need someone

Nah Jedi u didn't come off as rude, nor do we have any indication if she was pressured. It's just that i haven't come across many young men who can "think ahead of the consequences", usu. they just assume i'm on BC and then when i bring it up they either don't want to discuss it or they'll say "no problo, got condom". Dig a little deeper and bring up the possibility of pregnacy and they think i'm moving too fast and want marriage, wtf. In my personal experience i met men who have dreams of carreers and all but they also want instant gratification and they don't think of the consequences or don't wanna think about it. Their attitude is that it's the responsibility of the woman and that there's always abortion.

 

I'm just as opposed to "it's all her fault and all her responsibility", as I am to "the bastard! he did this to me! I was in another county at the time!"

 

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Well it sounds like you have it under control and caught it early enough to where the procedure wont be too bad.

That is fuckin rad. Post pics please. Or at least tight shirt/bra pics. Come on Little One that would be so HOT!

 

Dude, NO.

That is NOT appropriate.

 

WTF man? What makes it so much more appropriate to ask a girl to see her breasts when she isnt preg? I mean, I just imagined swollen boobs when she said that and I couldnt help myself. FWIW, while I would LOVE to see such pics of the little one, it was meant more as a joke, and I did not expect her to comply. Lighten up please.

 

Dude, she's going through a tough period and some tough decisions, she's been through a total rollercoaster, and you're asking to see her t*ts?

How do you act at funerals?

 

Uh, I agree with IronGoth here... you don't ASK to see someone's breasts! If they offer, that's one thing. But sheesh!
love,
mom

 

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I laugh

 

((((hugs)))) everything will be fine. i'm glad he's being more supportive

 

No sympathy for the love deprived here. In that case, I am fucked. The last time a girl offered to show me her boobs was two years ago.

 

Yeah, if this were the LOVE AND SEX forums, I could see you asking that. But it isn't. This is a real woman with real problems, and she needs real support and real advice. Someone coming in here and asking to see her breasts is not appropriate.

 

I apologize if my comment was inappropriate. If you can, see it as a compliment. It certainly wasnt meant to be disrespectful.

 

CC, there was no malice in my statements, just this isn't the right time.

Nor would "gee, seeing as how you're pregnant already, can we "do it"? That way I know for sure I can raw dog someone without worrying about them being knocked up.

See how in BOTH cases you're asking to exploit what to her is a bit of a stressful and tragic situation?

 

In my defense. I did write her a supportive PM a few days ago.

This is like office space haha. When 15 people remind the dude of his mistake on tps reports. Oh well.

 

I don't believe you intended malice. But it was particularly awkward.

 

That's how I see it. I didn't think it was meant in a mean or spiteful way. Just wasn't particularly appropriate in this thread.

Didn't mean to come off like I was snapping at you or anything. I shouldn't be posting. I'm sick and feeling a bit cranky.

 

once again, I apologize.

 

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