My present (and first) boyfriend is 36-- twice my age. Our relationship is fantastic so far, because we can communicate... I'll admit, the fact that he's had so much more experience than I have (which is practically none) is terrifying, but he respects that and gives me all the time and encouragement I need. I say, whatever works for you
There is no reason to feel badly because of inexperience. We were all born knowing how to do little more that suck, urinate, and defecate. Life is a learning process that never ends. Walk carefully .... be 110% honest .... be 110% you .... and you'll do well!
I don't feel badly so much as I feel... umm, intimidated is I think the wrong word. I'm afraid though that I'll disappoint him, which is totally irrational because he loves me and doesn't expect me to be a porn star. It's mostly just nerves. OldTroll, you are a very wise man. I'm glad HF has you
We were all born knowing how to do little more that suck And some of us just keep better and better at it, too.
Me and my fiance are getting married in july, we have been together for over two years and we just understand each other completely, we honestly believe we are soulmates.... he is 31 years older than me
How old are you? Marriage? Just live with him. Do you really want to be wiping his butt in about 10 years? My wife is 12 years younger than me. We were together for 30 years then she left. So, here I am, alone, just when I needed her the most. Are you going to do that to him? Oh, of course you're saying no now, my wife did too. Go to a nursing home and ask them what they go through caring for the elderly before you go through this.
My boyfriend is 5 years older than me. I won't date anyone less than 2 years older than me. I just can't handle the immaturity of men
i think i figured the whole 'may/september' thing out recently... an older woman no longer ovulates. fat women, when they ovulate, tend to have a lot of insulation, so a man doesn't know that a fat woman is ovulating... i like to be warm in bed. a fat woman (i have had a few) always has a cold butt. an older woman who isn't ovulating is cold all over. therefore, one would want a not porcine younger woman who is still ovulating to stay warm in bed. this explains to me why 50 year old men want 20 year old women...if the man's lifespan is going to be about 80, give or take a few, and women tend to go through womanopause about 50, then a 50 year old guy wants a woman who is ovulating at least 30 years from when they find her. the 'good until' date should be stamped on their foreheads. another thing for the fda to deal with....
i know what it feels like to take care of the elderly... i know it'll be hard but i'm willing to do it for him cause he is worth it.
Not the entire gender, just the men I know that are my age are immature...maybe it's because I'm like "one of the guys"