Older Men, Younger Women

I was 18 when I lost my virginity to someone 10 years older than me, and was rather unexperienced in general because I was more interested in horses than boys, and was your garden variety late-bloomer. My oldest sister (16 years my senior) always told me, "Don't waste your virginity on a 10-second doggie poke from some horny high school boy." No truer words were ever spoken! But then I met XXXX and he totally rocked my world. You hear a lot of stories about peoples' "first time" being horrible...not me! He was wonderful and gentle and took his time with me.

Since that time, I've always dated older men and have never been disappointed. Rest assured, it was NEVER for the money. Bottom line is: If a woman is with a man for his money, she's earning it the hard way.

Had to laugh at whoever posted the comment about being into old hippie dudes. I can totally see that! What better way to spend a day than having a little herb and some laughs, going out for something good to eat (preferably Mexican food) and coming home and making love for the rest of the afternoon.

Age 41 now...still love older dudes and will check them out over younger dudes any day. :sunny:

 

^well you know a guy named XXXX is going to be good in bed...

 

To respond to this, as a young guy, I took a leaf out of the sterotypical "older guy" playbook and have not rushed things once I got a girl on a date and/or in my bed.

Savoring a moment slowly actually goes a long way...if you know what I mean.

 

I love being with an older man so much more fun, sex is literally the best with him, I wonder why I waited so long and wasted my time with younger/my age people. I've never been so happy in my life, we are 20 years apart but it actually feels like we are exactly the same age

 

I prefer older men. When I was a teen I liked guys 25-45. Now I'm 25 and prefer men 30-55.

They are more mature, confident, interesting, tend to treat you better, better in bed unless you you want is a hard banging. They generally have a more "settled" character that I like.

 

The trouble is older women tend to be bitter and have a poor attitude, maybe sometimes for good reason but it is such hard work .
Too hard.
i try to be like i was when i was young and have an attractive attitude , for myself and others but so many women are just a waste of space.

then a man sees a younger woman who is pretty and has a nice attitude, where is the choice?

 

The choices are two:

• just copy/paste
• actually think of something

 

This thread was originally created in the summer of 2006... No wonder I never posted on here back then, I'd just come out of my own inter-generational(15-year difference) relationship with an ex-member of HF at the time, lol. Posting something on here would've been awkward since she was still active on here back then, lol.

Anyway, my current Significant Other is about half my age right now. In some countries, she can't even drink legally, lol. Luckily she can where she lives. She has told me that she's always preferred her partners to be older than she is.

As for me... I've always preferred my partners to be younger, but there have been exceptions where I was attracted to someone older as well. It just seems that I tend to connect better with younger girls generally speaking.

 

I'm 21 and with a guy who is 29. I dunno...I just seem to get more on with him than other guys my age. ( who try to act like gangsters) lol

so yea the communication is ok and stuff.... I was actually wondering, does anyone seem to care what other people think about you as couples?, when you're with a guy older than you?

 

In my case, I'm the older guy dating a younger girl, and I AM concerned about what her parents might think. My SO and I were just talking about this until she fell asleep on me(we're in a long distance relationship with 5000 miles between us and hours of time difference) about half an hour ago. Anyway, she has implied that at least one of her parents should be cool about us dating, so that's a good sign. She is also convinced my personality will win them over. I certainly hope so! lol xD

I'm not worried about my parents' reactions where our age difference is concerned. I just hope they, or my mother in particular, will like her, and that they won't put too much pressure on us to get married too soon, lol. Also, my SO is from a different culture from ours, so I really hope my parents won't have a problem with this. I don't think it'll be a problem, though.

 

I like really smart women and think a great brain is such a turn on.
Some of the women are so wild and you have such a good time in their company.
Smart people think beyond the square or people who have worked it out , it is really refreshing .
Most people get in a rut in their thinking and it goes nowhere great.
Many older women get socialized into being a certain way and it is a pity.

 

I happen to be with someone who is exactly my age lol but I always had a thing for older guys. They're more mature and have more experience and wisdom. Also, they're MUCH less likely to be unemployed and living at home.

If we ever broke up, I'd try to go for a guy who is 30 and up.

 

My wife is about 1 & half years older than me & if I were to remarry for any reason in the future or to have another partner, I'd possibly choose someone much younger than me *is nice looking & slim / medium build & someone that can satisfy me in different ways I haven't experienced yet.

 

I'm female, 31, and a good friend of mine who is female, bisexual and the same age as me, has been hooking up with her boss (also female) who is in her early 50's. I thought it was really strange when she first told me, although I've seen her boss and... well let's just say I don't blame her too much. But she says it's got some amazing benefits, if not just a few drawbacks.

 

yeah, if your social group consists of older guys and wannabe gangsters, the older guys will probably win every time.

unfortunately, in most cultures the women has to agree to the marriage.

 

My SO and I had a big talk early this morning(due to the time difference), because she felt she needed to confess something to me before we proceeded any further into our relationship. Turns out she's younger than she initially had me believe. I understood her reason for being dishonest about her age, though. She never thought it would be a big deal because neither one of us knew we would end up falling in love with each other at first. And when we did, we just went with the flow, albeit slowly, so our focus was on further solidifying our emotional bond, not something necessarily trivial like our age.

She told me she still wanted us to be in a relationship together, and apologized for not being truthful about her age. Considering everything that she and I have developed so far where our relationship is concerned, I wasn't about to get a mere age issue get in the way. What we share is too precious, and has too much of a potential to become something permanent(we think about it, we talk about it, but we have enough sense not to be aiming toward it at this time as we understand it's still too soon), for either of us to turn our back on. But, since she was 'fessing up, I decide to make a confession of my own. She understood where I was coming from, and I think, for the first time ever, I feel like I've found a partner who accepts me for what I am.

After our talk, we both felt so much better and, I think, now we appreciate each other even more because there's nothing to hide. I suppose my confession had a little more weight to it than hers did, and she WAS a little surprised to hear it. But she still wants me...well, she's wanted to me all along. And I still want her. I think it really IS fate that she and I be in a relationship together. She and I always say to each other that we have a good feeling about this. Right now, I really DO have a good feeling about this.

 

So how old are you & her or how many years difference between you both?

 

Our age difference is 21 years. Exactly how old we are isn't important here.

 

I've always been attracted to much older men. A friend and I were discussing this today, and couldn't decide what the name for ladies like me. What's the opposite of a cougar??

 

Hmmm...... A "cub"? A "kitten"?