Older Virgins Weird?

I think all my time hanging out with girls fucked up my genetic code of tackleing the gazelle.

 

That is perhaps true, but as I alluded to earlier, what tactics a guy chooses to use to get a woman should largely be based on the type of woman he wants to attract. Maybe the "treat them bad" approach will give a guy more of a chance to attract a woman, but is the type of woman that pick up tactic will work on the type of woman he wants to be with? Of course, this all depends on the individual guy, and what he is looking for in a woman and out of a relationship.

As for your last point, that is absolutely true of course. You can maybe have some idea of what a person is like based on what they're attracted to, but there's so many grey area's there, you couldn't really base any concrete assumptions purely based on that. lol

 

Again I've never had a relationship with a girl, so i don't know the differences, the one girl i like has some stuff in common with me shes attractive and she seems to want to hang out with me. the only thing i dis like about her is she is always putting me down and making fun of me an shes really superfical(sp?) and shallow.

 

Its funny that the conversation had just turned to stating that not all women find men being mean to them attractive, when of course it's often forgotten that some men actually seem to be attracted to women who don't treat them very well.

I find it hard to fathom why you would want to be her boyfriend, if she puts you down and makes fun of you. Also, being superficial and shallow aren't great qualities either. Maybe it could be lack of self esteem that you don't seem to mind her treating you like that? Cos that just seems really wrong to me.

 

I Really dont care about all her put downs tho cuz they are all stupid! i have this really sweet jean jacket i wear she hates it and always makes fun of me for it, but the reality is its a jacket who gives a flying fuck. I have been around girls that treat me super sweet and loving, and tell me i'm the best man ever and that they should date me, then dont those girls make me more depressed and sad then the ones that put me down atleast they arent two faced

 

I agree. Men like that are definitely a turn-off.

 

Well that's different, I thought when you said you didn't like her putting you down, I thought you meant she was being mean, and putting you down as a person. Forgive my mistake. lol

Though the fact remains if you have deep feelings for her, and she doesnt feel the same, and is critical of you being a virgin, then it might be for the best if you had some time away from her. I know that will be very difficult for you, but in the long term, it will probably be better for you, if you did that.

 

Well i asked for advice so i better try it out i will have to be after the 29th tho cuz i already had a date set up with her to have dinner and a movie. Then in a couple of months its our birthday we have the same b day i will be 22 she will be 21. She wants me to take her to the bar, and i am wishing for some birthday sex thats all i want for my 22nd b day present. i know im terrible

 

Get her wasted and bang her man!! perfect opportunity don't let it go to waste.

does she have relations with others?

 

Me and her get wasted all the time so i had tons of opportunity but im a gentleman and dont get chicks wasted to get in their pants but since im not gonna hang out with her, and its our birthday i might as well give it a shot. Yeah she has had some boyfriends over the years all dicks and who gets to hear how bad they are me! it sucks but has of right now she is single.

 

You can be a gentleman and get turned down and save face, just gotta have no fear. Hard to do for some and in your situation probably not very likely. Do you want to be gentle to her in bed? lol

 

If i was in bed with her i'd be a yes man and give it to her anyway she wants it i'll be gentle if she wants or i will fuck her has hard as she wants but the shitty thing is it will probably last like 3 minutes.

 

keep this in mind. doesn't sound like she's interested in gentlemen.

 

You know a lot of girls like domination so if you took charge you'd probably be in for a shot.

If you're drunk you'd probably be ok to last over 3 mins, before i had sex i thought i'd cum in seconds then i realised i found it extremely difficult to cum in a girl probably cos i'm so used to wanking... still find it hard these days.

But anyway I think if you manage to get some loving off her i think your whole gentleman thing will change a little bit with confidence.

i hope the best for you!

 

I also agree. what would a str8 women know about picking up women right?

 

dont be a pussy

 

lol

 

I know plenty of virgins around my age.
Most of them because of beliefs.

Dated a guy for two years who was a virgin....not gonna lie...that was hard...and got aggravating at times.

I talked to a guy briefly who is a virgin, not by beliefs but simply the fact that he thought it was a neat concept to wait until marriage and have that person as the only person he's ever slept with. I respect that concept, if that's what you want for yourself.

But just a piece of advice, don't go hire a hooker because you don't want to be anymore, don't sleep with someone at a party that you barely know because you don't want to be anymore. Once you drop your standards, it makes it sooooo much easier to just sleep with anyone.
That's just my two cents.

 

I think maybe some of you are misjudging my inexperience for lack of cofidence. I am scared of sex yes just because i dont know how to start the contact. I was hella afraid of longboarding, until my friend threw me on one and shoved me down a hill, then it just came to me this ain't bad at all. I am thinking the same about girls but i havent found a girl to give me that first shove. So i was thinking maybe a hooker would be good for my first time and maybe something will click and i will then understand girls.

 

Nevermind the hooker idea man.

Just go to a party and hook up with a drunk chick. If you're not holding out for something special but are just looking to get the ball rolling, that's probably your best bet. However just because you have sex one time doesn't mean you're going to suddenly know how to pick up women. You have to learn how to do that. Blowing your load one time isn't going to give you that "ability".

Don't ever expect to understand women though.