Just a bump in the road man. Keep on keeping on. Just to let you know, chicks will almost always talk to you if you buy them drinks. They're funny that way. Next time buy one a drink.
I'll keep that in mind, I would of bought them drinks but i ran out of money buying drinks for my lady friend least i paid my debt off to her now.
Here's a tip. Drink before you go out. It'll give you liquid courage and you won't have to spend as much on drinks for yourself. More money for the ladies. :2thumbsup: Edit: And don't go to a bar with a chick that you're just friends with.
20 years old and still a virgin. There was a time when I hated the fact that girls manipulate boys to get their wishes done. After the time passed I did not care.More time passed, and I thought that I am ugly looser, that is why I am alone. Later I have come to realize, that I never wanted to have a girlfriend to begin with, and thats the reason I did not manage to get in a relationship. Because there were a plenty of opportunities in my life, but I choose to be coward, or too picky, instead of have a girlfriend. I saw my friends in relationships, and from what I have seen, I did not loose nothing. There are three examples. -A"s girlfriend cheated on him, then she used the power of the guilt, and sexual appeal trick, and now they together again, but I know, she is the same girl who pulls the strings from the shadows. -C"s girlfriend always do the hysterical stuff, if it does not happen as she wants.Before they were together, we used to call her stalker, because she was always following him. -B has ended his relationship which lasted about two years. Now she blackmailed him, if they wont be together, then she will call the police and tell stuff, which should not be told. Countless times I saw other guys desperately trying, not only they did not success but they were the new topic among the cool guys, where they were not mentioned in a good way. The morale of my comment is, that girls are crazy, m kay? Btw I gonna have a girlfriend if my life says so, until that I am 100% satisfied with myself, even If I am alone virgin.
About buying girls drinks I've wanted to do this for a year now, offer to buy a girl a drink then come back with a glass of water just to see their face and act like it was a completely normal thing to do. Would have to do it to a girl you think is a complete bitch though
lol Or ask them, "would you like a drink?" and if they say yes just say something like, "cool" but don't actually buy the drink
Meh I'd let those crazy girls do that to me atleast it would showed they atleast at one point cared for me.
i used to know a guy who would do that, except he seriously thought it was normal. he was just completely anti-alcohol, and also had absolutely no understanding of women.
I don't think it's weird per se, but it is unusual in that most adults by their mid-20's have had sex. So while I wouldn't call it weird, it's definitely uncommon. In fact, one guy said he thinks it's "statistically impossible" for someone of my age to still be a virgin. Although that is exactly what I am, sadly. lol
30 here, best ive gotten is a hug im vary anti social. id probably break up even with even a hot chick on teh 1st fight hehe
I think it's kind of strange. Sexual desire is the most base instinct and can be impossible to fight.
Same here, and I haven't even been hugged since I was very young child. lol I've pretty much been a hermit all my life, and stay away from people as much as I possibly can. Although because of my situation, even at a young age, I knew that things like love, sex and relationships wouldn't be a part of my life. I think while it certainly is uncommon for people our age to be virgins, I think it's more common than most people think it is. A guy I know says a friend of his (male) is over 40 and is still a virgin.
Now that is why internetz exist. Sexual desire can be controlled through watching porn. Thanks to that, I dont feel the urge to find a "girlfriend".
You sir are exactly what i don't want to be! I would rather have a real girl and do pornographic shit with her then watch porn and beat it.
Well, there's nothing wrong with masturbating to porn, though. I mean, I do it all the time even though I DO prefer to share physical intimacy with a real girl. Porn is what it is, it offers sexual stimulation. Might as well take advantage of that at appropriate times.
Yeah I'm not knocking porn or masterbation, I was just thinking why would you choose that over a girl i wouldn't. Girl comes up to me want to go to a movie and make out? Me- naw I'm gonna stay home and beat it to some Lesbians using strap ons. ha ha