On Being Thin...

We DO like 'em wirey.

 

Check out the bodies of the guys in "Climbing" and "Rock+Ice" and you will see the ideal male body types - long and lean. And the female climbers look hot too. Some guys think weightlifter types are what women want, but I have never found one who does.

 

I'm 5'9 155. i'm 24, ,when i graduated high school at 18 i was 5'9 120. i just kinda naturally gained weight as i got older i didnt work out or anything mabey ate a little more. now i work out alot too. but i'm still just average, which i like. as long as ur strong and healthy who cares.

 

thatll just make the guy gain fat weight <_<

 

Healthy guys are hot.

You know what's not hot? Guys who are so muscular that he has no life outside of the gym or so fat they obviously have no life outside of Micky D's.

I don't care what their natural build is..

No need to fix perfection.

 

I dunno man, I was 230 muscle and insecure and couldn't click with women at all
now that I don't care at all and let it all go I have no problems
I wouldnt be with anyone who cares about looks anyways, esp the media brainwashed
when you realize you are perfect and beautiful and can accept that everyone else will see it
peace man

 

i'm a skinny guy... 5' 11", weigh about 150 pounds. i just love it when people feel the need to point out the fact that i'm skinny.

 

I'm feeling better about it lately; spring is coming, so I'm going to be doing my usual regimen to gain a little and work out some. I'm actually thankful that I'm on the lean side and healthy as well. I know for a fact that I'm not 'out of shape' but, I was pondering if I should add some mass; it's going to take some minimal effort but I think I'll be fine. And anyone who doesn't like it, that's their problem, yano?...gr8 comments Maryslittlebrat. I appreciate all of the comments and opinions offered from my hip brothers and sisters...

 

I HATE guys with mustle and I LOVFE skinny, tall, pale men. Some women like fat men. Old, men and fat men dont bother me either. My point is that, there is no one type of builfd women like. Some like short, some tall, some fat, some skinny.

 

I think that I am in love!:drool:

 

im sorry but that commnet wasn't too nice. Some people dont use harsh words like "fat ass" because its un-nessecerally (cant spell that) cruel for someone who has been bigger for all of their life. Just because he's short and skinny doesnt mean things suck for him! I know plenty of ladies that love sshort skinny guys.

 

i like... umm...
men?

 

Dude, look at pop culture right now. All of the men are skinny.

I love little guys...to me a guy who can wear my jeans is as hot as guys think a girl wearing their sweatshirt is.

haha, and I learned a long time ago not to comment on skinny guys' weight.

tall and thin, short and thin, it's all hot. ooo, you guys can pull off the long sleeved button ups...and LAYERS! that's pretty damn hot. Embrace it. Most of the female population is attracted to you and half of the male population is jealous.

 

eh, i take my "i like men" comment back.
there IS such a thing as too skinny.
i must say, i'm not a big fan of tall and super skinny guys..
i dated one for 2 years, though.
my boyfriend now is pretty skinny but he's not REALLY tall so it balances out.
plus he has some muscles.
when i first met him, he was working construction and was REALLY beefy and cut and MAN! it was sexy as hell.
since then, six months ago, he hasn't been workin construction so alot of the muscle has disappeared. he's still sexy though.

 

mmm, yeah, the super anorexic looking guys are not hot. Like they look like you might break them in half...

still. I don't like beefy guys. I guess if I liked the guy it wouldn't bother me, but tree trunk necks and thick waists aren't things I'm initially attracted to.

 

Don't you find that just petty? I know its to be expected, Ive been skinny all my life and am used to it. But it used to get to me, badly effecting my confidence, etc..I mean its not usually acceptable to casually remark on someone's overweight condition, it shouldnt be for skinny people either.
Anyway, I am 6 foot 3 and 160lbs. and not big enough for my standards. My ideal weight would be around 180-185lbs...But all that aside I eat healthy and some girls find me attractive so I have no right to complain. But...I hate it when they have to make a point to let you know once again that you are skinny....skin and bones....scrawny...the list goes on. I eat everything I can (healthy too), but its hard to find the time to work out enough to make a difference.
I find solace in the fact that if I did train hard for 6 months I could probably find work as a male model Just kidding, I would'nt be a part of that but just to illustrate a point.

Count your blessings and try to be happy with what god gave you is what my grandmother always said.


Lots of love

 

yeah the thick neck thing is gross.
my boyfriend just had really nice arms and a nice stomach. not like body building beefy... just looked like he'd been doin some hard labor and that's soooo sexy to me.

 

5ft 8", traditionally 54kg (120 lbs), now nearer 60kg (132lbs) as I have been working hard on the upper body strength and now no longer struggle to lift stuff.

Dont really physically look any different in my mind, and in fact I was more proud when I was lighter as it was at least a talking point! And in some circumstances low weight can be a huge advantage.

In other news, last year I met a girl who really digged me, and I really digger her, but after a while the physical thing just became too much of a problem and that really killed any chance of anything ever more coming of it. Mind you, turned out she was cheating on two other boys for a fat bloke twice her age, so kind of didnt give much thought for her opinion after that.

But yep, personally couldnt give a monkeys, I'm very fit and not an ounce of fat on me, though still have a little belly - age I guess!

 

There's one sure way to find out, darling...and I'm looking forward to it; are you?

 

hahaha, I like a guy who looks like he hasn't lifted anything heavier than a yoga mat for a while... Mostly because my experience with guys is that the ones who have more muscular bodies (I mean they're hot and all...)are CONSTANTLY trying to get me to pump their egos and acknowledge how "buff" they are. I'm sure your boyfriend's not like that...it's just why I'm not going to go for big guys straight off.


That and all the men in my family are big. Not fat big, but muscle big. I think my uncles are like...just below 6' around 200-250 lbs..all of them! So I guess I'm just sick of it.

I still just don't understand why guys feel the need to be big. Just go with what your body naturally does! Be healthy! Healthy is sexy.