One cold bitch

the title really says it all this time.

 

I think I remember another thread, maybe over ten pages long, where everybody told you not to peruse this ****...but you did anyways.

You made this choice. And you keep making this choice but coming here to whinge about it.

Live with being a self-made pussy-whipped victim or grow a pair.

 

Its your own fault. People will treat you a certain way only if you allow it.

You could have broken up with her already or at least stood up to her, which would be the logical option to a sane person.

If my boyfriend didn't acknowledge my birthday and then acted like a spoiled narciccistic dickhead on my birthday, I would break up with him immediately. Because I am sane.

Me thinks the reason you like her brand of crazy is because you're a little crazy too. And thats okay, but don't fish around for advice when the only obvious advice is to break up with the bitch and you're too fond of her to follow through with that advice.

 

Good advice. Grow a pair and disappear. You must not think much of yourself to allow a person like that anywhere around you ,let alone to try a relationship with. You may be doomed to keep looking for people like this--it's what people do that have no self respect. I had one like that. I allowed her to abuse me and stir up shit for 3 years. I was just as sick as she was to put up with that crap,I finally decided--and I packed up and punched out. Haven't seen her since. That was 1967. You're supposed to learn what you WON'T put up with as you go along in life. Now,get to learnin'.

 

Well here is what happenen. The day befor her b-day she acted like a bitch because I didn't plan anything for her birthday. She didn't ask just asumed. I ended up taking her out because I am better than that and want to look back knowing I was the better person. I asked her if we could make love and she denied me. I told her that it had been a month and then told her that I couldn't go on like this and broke up with her. I took her home the next day and haven't heard from her that was three days ago. On the way home she seemed somewhat sad and almost like she didn't know what to do or say. I think that she thought that I would do whatever she wanted and never leave but I have had enough. Even though she did a lot of horriable things we did have times that usually lasted only a few days where I would think "if you were like this all the time I would marry you" I loved her and miss her. I know people think that I didn't see how she was but I did I just was hoping there was some way to make this person better. I feel that she had a mental illness and that would snap on and off causing the problems. I do thank you good people for all the input it's what helped me get through this when I was at my end

 

My advice is that when you meet somebody and they start to control in little ways don't overlook it to avoid a fight like I did. You get respect when you demand it and the sad thing is I let this become an abuser who mistreated me first emotionally by breaking up or threats of such when she wouldn't get her way, then verbally and even sometimes physically which was usually her messing around yet the things she did as a "joke" were painful. I just hope that the next guy doesn't get mistreated because of things I let her think were "ok"

 

Now Comes The Tricky Bit, Your'e Going To Be Lonely And Tempted To Rush

Into Another Affair On The Rebound...

DON'T DO IT...Just Cool It, Get Yourself Together For A


Month Or Two, Then Start Socialising Again....

Some Of The Biggest Mistakes Ever Are Made On The Rebound....

I Wish You Well....



Cheers Glen.

 

Seems to me like you're using your position as a grown man who is free to make his own choices to sit in a load of your own shit and fling it out at us every now and then, because that's a lot easier than actually sorting out the problem which you have had and known about for months now.

 

I'm using this open forum as a tool to vent my frustrations and get a little feedback from people who may have gone through the same thing or had some insight into it because this (crazy shit) is all new to me. Going back and reading posts people have left in response is what has helped me pull myself out of this "shit" and move on. This still is an open forum and anyone can post right? How boring the forums would be if only some people posted about vanilla or regular things. If you don't like my post you are free to not read it and if you have some insight please post it. Thank you

 

that would still be better than going back to this girl though...

well, it's kind of hard to know if you like a post or not before you read it...

 

This is exactly what I'm talking about and what I need to read to remind myself not to go back!

 

Run.

 

I know I haven't spoken to her in almost a week yet for some stupid reason I want to just ask her how she is or hear her voice. Stupid I know but now I'm alone and it sucks.

 

Don't worry about being alone. You will get over any feelings of guilt you have when you get a new girlfriend. Avoid contacting the other girl, as it will suggest to her that you condone her being a nut job, and still want her.
She may also want to arrange a meeting, and may try to kill you for abandoning her.

BTW, don't mention any of his to the new girl. It is called 'baggage', and you seem to have a lot of it.