Orgasms Just Don't Seem To Happen!

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penetrates is a dirty word :blush5:

 

yeah, it rhymed that's why i used it.

but, for real. maybe cut down on the masturbation and continue to self-stimulate during sex. fantasize about whatever, it's not like he will know what you're thinking about. usually, it's all mental. that's why it's so easy for you to cum by yourself.

Man, I'm glad I'm one the the 10%ers. Sorry ladies, I don't usually have this problem.

 

Sound's familiar.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

thanks for that. so necessary.

 

Sorry if I came across as a ****.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

careful what you say, someone might penetrate you!!

 

I have the same problem, I just can't seem to orgasm during sex, yet with masturbation I can't seem to stop

 

It took me years to get over the guilt associated with masturbation. For a woman, stimulation of the clit is almost always a requirement for orgasm. So, it gets pretty simple: one of you needs to play with that little toggle switch! A couple of specifics:

How about oral? Can he lick (and finger) you to a climax first, then go for the traditional intercourse afterward?

Can you simply reach down and masturbate? Notice several other posters have made the same suggestion.

Why doesn't he stimulate your clit? That's tough to do with him on top in the missionary position, but if you're on top or if you're doing doggie, its pretty easy for him to reach down and tickle you. One other variation is if you lay on your back and lift your legs way up, he can reach around and use his fingers on your love button.

I used one of those small penlight vibrators attached to the top of my cock once and had great success. It was awkward, but fun.

The point is, simply go for the enjoyment, however you can achieve it. If he's hung up about not reaching this particular goal simply using his tool, he needs to grow up. An "O" is an "O".....

 

See this is where most people go wrong, they think the clit is the end all of orgasm, OK yes I think its important but its not everything, too much ephasis put on the clitoris only, this is where you go wrong.

The entire body is an errogenous zone, its caressing the entire body that is important, everybody wants it easy but its not easy to achieve.

Nothing worth anything is easy.

Nothing comes from nothing, nothing ever did.

If you haven't spent hours on foreplay forget it you just wont get there, that my experience of how to achieve it.

Anybody that puts enough time into it Im sure will achieve it but it aint easy.

If your a guy and you just want to press a button and wha - la forget it it aint going to happen that easy.

Put five hours of foreplay and thats got to be affective foreplay.