first of all a broken heart takes time. If youre like me, youre feeling dissapointment, a hint of rejection (which will usually be the first feeling to go because youll realize it wasnt anything to do with you, espeically in this situation- he simply met someone. period. nothing to do with you) and frustration. its usually the frustration thats the hardest to overcome. the most important part is to not concentrate on getting over him. that'll just perpetuate the thoughts of him running around your head. a train of thought of 'i dont need him. im over him..' derailing into all the things you like about him. DONT BOTHER. just concentrate on fidning happiness within. The best relationships are founded when you can be happy on your own, find contentness within, on your own. When you dont NEED someone else. all you need is you. the rest is just a huge huge perk. thats hte easiest way to look at it.
ok im over it it turns out that the girl doesnt even like him so there over, and everything is back to the way it used to be, i didnt even have to get over him! but should i anyway? hmmmmmm...?...?...? great now im confused again!
what the hell......you were talking like you guys promised to get married, and now youre wondering if you have to get over it or not?