i love my parents, but i dont really consider them to be parents. i dont exactly have a rating for them.
ah hell iffin i hadda givum a numerical score,,, guess the ol lady woulda got a 2 or 3 and the ol man a big fat zero zippo zilch nada nothin,,,,,, however,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, iffin they hadnt been the fukked up idiots that they were in life and raising children then i wouldnt know a lot of what i know now ,,,, so i spose in that way i have to thank both ...the wishin i was never born, shouldagiven ya up, ass whippin bitch mother and the child raping gonna knock yer head off father.... cant just dwell on the rotten shit,,, something good can come outta everything
My dad in parenting a 5 (but he was a drunk) in cool-ness a 10 My mom in parenting a 7 in cool-ness a 9
my dad in parenting- 7 in coolness- 0 my mom in parenting- 8 in coolness- 9(she lets me have girls spend the night!)
my dad gets a 5 for performance and a 11 for love and effort my mom gets a 2 for performance and a -20 for love and effort (that's counting the 8 years we haven't spoken)
On average - 10 for mom, 6 for dad Growing up - my dad was a 5, just never saw the man much and he was always very distant. I respect that he was the bread winner and needed to work a lot to support us, but money is everything, which he still struggles at understanding. My mother I would rate a 10 growing up. She's just a great mother through and through - undertanding and respectful Today - my dad is more like a 7. I thought he would keep getting better and better as he showed tremendous progress from where he was at during my youth up into my mid-20's, but he's pretty much plateaued ever since then. I can't talk to the man about many things that are important to me. My mom has always remained a 10 - I really can't think of one thing she has ever fucked up at in the ways she has gone about being a parent.
they've both pretty much always been in the negative digits what doesnt kill us makes us stronger, right?
My mom gets a 9.5...She was awesome, and did the best she could with the education, money, and love experiences she had...I mean, she was 18 when she had me, her mom had walked out on her when she was 11. She did exactly what she could for me... My biological father gets a 6...He wasn't there for the first 5 years of my life...Didn't come around often. When I was 8, he kidnapped me. After that, I didn't hear from him until I was 13...But now he's wonderful...he'd give the shirt off of his back for me...and loves me to pieces... My adoptive father gets a -1,000...He abused me physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually...He is the reason I have any problems at all today...emotionally, I mean...The bastard should rot in hell... My step-father gets a 20...He didn't come into my life until I was 12...But immediately, he started to act like what a dad is supposed to be...He was firm but loving, and supportive...And he's never once decided not to be there for us...He loves me like a daughter, and I love that...He's fucking awesome...
my mom i give a 5 or so she tries real hard but she has problems my dad i give an 9 we have had our problems but he is great
I would rate my father a 2 and my mother a 10. My sister and I barely saw our father he had visitiation with us every other weekend. He rarely got to see us cuz he was either fucked up on his drugs, too drunk to stay awake, out at the bar picking up women OR he was sitting in jail for not paying child support or for some other stupid reason. My step father I would rate him a 0 he was a complete and total asshole he was abusive in any way imaginable my mother,sister and i went through hell for few years until my mother opened her eyes and divorced him. my mothers current BF is more of a father to me and my younger sister than our biological fathers could ever be he gets a 10.