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oh! id like a blessing! its a long story but here's why:

my girlfriend asked me to marry her and just like on reflex i said yes.. that was soo wrong.. it was the wrong answer cause really i dont want to marry anyone ever.. i could never say that yes, i will be with you forever... I want to fall in Love again and again. the whole notion of wearing the wedding dress that my mom made and wore would be soo loverly... and all the flowers and the honeymoon.. but no, its not right for me, id be Sooo unhappy, id feel like i was trapped in a cage. I LOVE my girlfriend soo much! but i cant marry her, i just cant, its wrong for me. Ive probly broken her heart and her feelings and maybe made her cry which makes me cry, but she might not have read the email.. so i guess ill have to call her and tell her my true feelings... and man.. im just gonna die, ive NEVER made anyone cry before.when i was enagaed to her i got soo connected to her that i was hurting myself when i was away from her for too Long, and i was taking her for granted that shed always be there... Also as soon as i said yes, shes been planning and daydreaming all these things and AHH!! its like a train that wont stop. and it makes her soo happy! But i cant Marry her. i Love her.. but WEd not get along well,and id feel trapped ,then wed stay together anyways cause its pagan tradition not to divorce people unless your like trying to kill eachother , or so says my girlfriend, and id feel not happy but safe... and id die without living cause its dangerous and shes peranoid about that. She always has all these things about how things should be done right and kinda rules... and i dont listen to any of it. and she has images of how itd be like and that theyd get married and i cant do that for her and i hope she finds someone good. She thinks we're soulmates and lived a past life together, but no i dont think we are, and im not gonna be with her forever... im 14, i dont want to get married, i dont want to promise that ill be stuck with someone forever, but i feel i might have broken her heart...

please give me a blessing for being stupid and not thinking

 

I would like blessings please because without them my workings may fail. I depend on my workings to provide for me and help me make Earth a better mother for us all.

thank you and nice thread.
The thoughfulness you've shown by providing it will bless yourself.

 

hay dood, i'll take a blessing

 

I would absolutely love to get a pagan blessing, but since the person blocked me he will not read this message and therefore I will never recieve one.

*cries hysterically*

 

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If the picture that is Ralph graces your retinas you have been blessed. You will soon remember where you hid your free will when that sonuvabitch doktor slapped the hell outta you all those years ago.

 

well honey, Paganism is a huge area with loads of different branches, however Handfasting was a pagan marriage in the old ages where a couple diecided to marry for a 'year and a day'. a year and a day later they would diecide if they still wanted to commit to each other and if they did they would remarry and if not they would go their separate ways. this is still very popular with many pagans today espeically in the wiccan tradition.

I think it was very brave of you to put your thoughts on the thread like that for us all to read and if you want to pvt me any time please do.

I am sending you blessings of HAZEL

Hazel is a reminder that Wisdom is what we know deep in side, and that knowledge is how we apply wisdom to our lives and we shouldn't mix the two up.
The ancestors are offering you wisdom now, but you must turn to them in any way you know or feel how, to accept it.
Blessings of wisdom to you!

S

 

Blessings of Apple to you!

As Ive said before my blessings are random and for some reason it seems lovely to give you apple if your trying to make mother earth better.
Apple has a huge amount of lore attached to him in the pagan tradionals as you might know.

Apple is blessing you with vision, which helps you to use your talents to look further and deeper and not just take th easy answrs. go beyond reality as the spirits are with you most strongly now, feel them!
and gain much wisdom from vision

S

 

Hey dood here it is I am sending you blessings of ALDER

Alder is protection, you are very protected now, but further more you have natural talents to protect your self and keep yourself safe

S

 

I normally do these randomly but for you I wanted to hand pick a blessing. I really wanted to send you a blessing of fun and homour but couldn't find a tree connected with that directly, which I think is interesting, so instead I am sending you blessings of Pine

Ive choosen this because this tree is connected to the greek god Dionysus, the god of wine, sex and good times so enjoy!

now ive finished my blessings this morning I am going to treat myself to a veggie fry up!!

love

S

 

i love everything you all have written! i suppose i'd like to ask for a blessing (if you are not done!) to help me clear my mind and really find out who i am, it's a wonderful time in my life because i am really finding out what i want to be in life and who i am, but its hard to focus sometimes.. and just one more thing what do you mean they are random? i really dont get that.. maybe i need to focus

 

Bird_Migration

my computer always tells me when you have replied to a thread I am looking at, even though I can no longer see what you have written.
you have replied to a blessings thread so heres yours

Blessings of Honeysuckle

Wisdom hides away, this blessing shows that you have much wisdom to share!
don't be afraid of it or hide behind a mask just be you

S

 

Hi I really like the fact that you are so postive about your life, share your secrets with the rest of us!
the way I am doing this I am keeping a secret, but random means I am not choosing them, with the exception of one person on here who I couldn't resist!

Blessings of HAWTHORN to you

This blessing reminds you that challenges and change are always present, without them our lives would be meaningless, look for the challenge in all situations and face it with the courage that you have as a gift

S

 

oh that made me so happy! ive been blessed with hawthorn guys! thank you samhain and maybe i will never know about the randomness of your answers

 

wats an alder man??? loveflower summed up what i would have liked pretty good..lol..

 

oh i did! im the center of attention today! now from what i read alder means protection but it does not protect you, it reminds you have the protection you have inside yourself! right samhain?

 

Your more than welcome and I would say that I agree with you, protection generally comes from inside one self

S

 

Our ancestors knew that trees carried great magical powers, and they are certainly known for their healing abilities. for example asprin comes from the willow bark.
for more imfo on Alder click here

http://www.thornr.demon.co.uk/bran/alderims.html


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