well first of all my intent was never for this to come out as a whine, just as more of a release on my part: thinking outloud. if it came out as complaining then i apologize. second car payments and kids arent the only thing that takes up time. my schedule is filled up with 8 classes and a part time job, plus working on the side so i can save, what one of my main points really was saying that society has taken childhood out of teenagers lives, because are opinions arent worth shit to society, and we cant decide if we want to get something pierced or not but we have to decide what our future is going to be now and take every little stupid assignment seriously. Im also saying that i just dont know which passions to pursue to the fullest and which not too. i think that you are the one complaining and taking out your lifes stresses on all of us, which is understandable we all need to release somehow. but again that is an assumption. and why cant a 16 year old be busy? in some cases you can budget your time as much as possible but you still dont have quite enough of it. i hope your stresses dont get the best of you and that you come to peace with them.
You are so right. There are plenty of things we need to do, to learn as kids and there's too little time left for our passions...
I think peaceloveandsunshine asked a very valid question for a 16 year old. As for one of you going off on her because of your own personal problems, it is easy to not comment on a post you may not agree with. Lashing at out at someone who is just expressing a thought solves nothing. Suggest that instead of blowing up on a stranger you work on making a car payment on time. peaceloveandsunshine's response to your statement has demonstrated more maturity than you have shown her.