I had a huge problem being at home. I moved at 16 and lived in a car and supported myself and my boyfriend on a part time fast food job. I don't recommed it, but I turned out really good since then.
Wow 16, sounds rough. I'm moving in 5 months and I'll be 19. I think I can hold out till then. It's funny my sister is getting married in the temple soon and I'm moving out with my boyfriend. So it'a very different paths or at least in my mom's eyes.
it was rough, but it was good for me. It was my time and my mom and I are best friends now that I have left. I needed to do something radical at the time to take some control in my life. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone, but I like to tell people I turned out great. most people who move out early and drop out of school are just bums but I really made soemthing of myself and I'm proud. I'm sure people are sick of hearing this story here. Sorry!
I used to consider moving into my boyfriend's house but I thought better of it. Patience is a virtue isn't it?
Ya know what's worse I'm actually thinking about becoming a vegan and that won't go over well at my house either.
Bitch slapped for saying rents? God for standing up for being unique you sure bitch about people's slang. I have a right to speak my own way and so do you. What a sin. I'm not being on my highhorse for no reason. This is personal experience that I'm lending. Take it or leave it. I obviously learned the hard way: The parents were viewed to have me look a certain way and behave a certain way. This conflicted with my immaturity and fascination with the expression of identity. Cause the clothes I wore were extreme to no end and the things I did were all out of anger. I wear bandshirts and jam out on the guitar. I support the smoking of dope and going your own way in life. But it only gets done faster and more effienciently if I cope with my rents. But sometimes this has to be done extremely. I moved out of the mother's house and have core vibes with her all the time. I can't stand being around her. She's a flip out. And the dad has an anger issue and his shallowness (this is all his words) that he gots but heck, its easy to avoid. Just don't piss the parents off. I don't know. Maybe I'm weird but I think having support behind you from the family makes life look alot easier. Plus it makes you feel like you are copable with people, even if its the family.
geez calm down...not a big deal... Obviously you werent too unique because you started using parents instead of rents
Starfucker, Ankita, It's all good I just want advice and opinions. All are listened to here. No one's wrong just different Parents or Rents? What's it matter? - peace
Yeah I'm just tripping out because people are attacking the words I use, not the actual message. Bleh.
yea i know how it is ....as long as ur trying to do what u want and not just trying to rebel against ur mom (whitch im sure ur not) i say do what u want me best freind isnt alowed to chill with me but thats nit guna stop us we still chill all the time , what ur mom dosent know wont hurt her
Headymoechick I did learn it the hard way because I was immature and made my own life shit. Besides having a felony on my record I had juvi for 6 months (spent only 2 weeks there) and had to be shipped out of state to a rehab in North Dakota. The coldest town in the contiguous United States. 5 months there I finally was allowed back after they threatened us illegaly. Guess where I went again? In and out of another division of this program for the next 3 years. I'm still in it! Its not the funnest thing on the planet to screw your own life up but atleast I learned valuable lessons from it. Peace.
