My wife disliked strapons because the were annoying to put on , never secure enough to really enjoy. Our other toy were gathering dust, unless I tried them all. The best thing I ever purchased for her was her Penis Pants. (my favorite) She enjoyed "her big cock" and feels empowered when I get her put it on and gazes at it like its her own. Even in our 70s I get still get her turned on now and then . she really isn't into a big production, so all she has to do is slip it on and lay back. I'll do all the work, gladly.