People not accepting of me/judging me

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Who said I meant that you should want to date her? Talking to a girl doesn't mean you want her to be your girlfriend...JUST A FRIEND! Isn't that what you want? Friends? Maybe she recognized you from the day before and maybe she wanted you to talk to her, just to say hi? Stop jumping to conclusions.

Do you want to smack me? I'd take you out.

Anyway, it wasn't an insult...it's actually being HONEST. I'm honestly telling you, I don't think you understand what we are trying to tell you. Therapy is NOT A BAD THING! Some of us need it to help us talk out our problems and get it straight in our heads. You need to see a therapist...that's the bottom line because we are trying to help you and all we get is crap like this in response...

Well, you know what? If people like us, unbiased people cant help you...then...well...a therapist is about your only hope at this point. It's obvious you won't take our advice...so I'm not sure why you post on here.

 

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Ridiculous... now strangers aren't allowed to smile at you without you wanting to yell at them about it? Maybe she thought you looked down and was just trying to cheer you up with a smile, something so small yet can carry so much meaning.

 

I don't think all "young lads" just go for looks. So you would rather be with a girl who was pretty than smart? Of course there has to be some level of attraction to want to be with someone, but, get real, would you rather have a pretty girl than a smart girl?

Either way, you need to get a clue.

And I do understand "young lads"...I was your age at one time...and I have many many male friends that were once your age...don't underestimate women.

 

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oh, I get it now. YOU are constantly judging other people, so you assume that other people are always judging you. Wake up. Most people don't give a damn about you. You aren't so incredible as to make any sort of impression on them by how you look, how you dress, or how you act. They really don't care. If you would allow them the chance to get to know you, then they might care about you. But you won't do that. No, you are too good for them, and too wrapped up in what other people might think about you to ever get close to anyone. Unless you really try, put forth the effort, therapy doesn't have a chance of helping you either. You don't seem to really want help. And with that attitude, there is nothing anyone can do or say that will help. You need to go back to that therapist, or find another one, and tell them what's going on inside your little head.


First, though, you gotta get a handle on the Aspergers. Find an occupational therapist, work on finding the right diet and exercise. You can't control the feelings of anger and rage, I totally understand that. But you can control things that make the anger and rage worse (usually it's gluten and casein, which I'd bet you eat in large quantities), and you can control how you react to those feelings. But if you don't want help, just go on with yourself. You can be just as miserable as you want to be.

 

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- People will not like you if you don't like yourself. That's a fact.
People won't like you if you never give them a chance to. That's a fact.


- Honestly, girls don't really care much about how a guy dresses. If she does, it's usually when your clothes tell how much money you have. Do you want a gold digger? My husband is a jeans-and-tee-shirt kind of guy. Girls hit on him CONSTANTLY, and random guys always come up and start conversation about any random things. Maybe it's the bright blue eyes, maybe it's the smile, maybe it's because he doesn't just look incredibly angry or upset when somebody looks his way or smiles at him. It certainly isn't the way he dresses (okay, unless he's wearing the "It isn't a bald spot, it's a solar panel for a sex machine" tee-shirt) or because he looks particularly smart or charming. It's because he looks like the kind of guy that anybody can talk to about damn near anything.

- There will ALWAYS be people that ask, "Are you alright?" or "Is something wrong?" etc. Consider it an offering - "I like random conversation and I'm able to care for people that I barely even know. Please, if you need someone, talk to me."

Do you really look at EVERYTHING with such a negative attitude?

 

if people have to judge you for who you are they are just unsure of who they are... It is easier to makes someone else feel bad then let it get to thereself about there own problems.. don't take is pesonaily cause the people that love you and care about you don't judge you!

 

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Chris you will feel better about yourself when you are working and
earning money. Concentrate on your career and studies.
Work produces self esteem.

People will be more attracted to you if percived as succesfull and engaged.

About that social worker, let me guess. On the Gvmt. payroll ?
It is a rare experence when a goverment worker is actualy helpful

 

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Chris:

Are you at the point where you could gain an internship in your field.

You will find most co-workers to be friendly, its nice to share a common bond
with co-workers.

 

OMG dude he just looked at you...it doesn't mean he doesn't like you. I think you dot like your self. he said nothing he simply looked at you! as many people have said time in time again in other posts of other threads of yours....stop caring about what peope think.

 

Chris, I have the solution to your problem:

http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=depressed

 

LMAO

This link has come in handy thanks

 

That's funny...and not all at the same time

LOL

I still have to laugh.

 

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It's called a sense of humor. Get one.