first time I have been told off for telling a girl she is pretty can someone please explain, I have no clue or don't explain I guess. I can handle it
lol Gary.. don't you make a big deal out this too! I am not in Cate's head so I don't wanna assume stuff but she's just having a moment of weakness as she said.. and.. I guess insulting you is part of the whole thing!
Eh, she thought you weren't paying attention to her feelings and telling her to just enjoy being pretty. She's insecure sometimes. I don't understand why. But she's human.
i wouldnt worry about it... its like the white man's burden. 'cept its the hot girl's burden. or something. my grandma always told me, be thankful for what you have.. anyway, LEFT FOOT GREEN!!
Well I meant its like supermodel walking around complaining that she is ugly, when most women are going to be jealous of her looks to begin with....or like a rich person claiming to be broke I don't really care who is pretty and who isn't I guess I am sort of pissed off now, oh well
I don't feel as hot or beautiful or whatever as people seem to think either.. I even sometimes truly despise my looks.. but.. that's just human.. I don't blame her.
lol. your intentions were good, it was the reading that went south. damn the internet. i must confess, i was getting a little hurt by her calling herelf plain. if she's plain, what the hell am i supposed to be? BUT I REFUSE TO BE PLAIN!! so i'll just be joyfully deluded and believe that i am the most beautiful redheaded person ever to sit on my couch. i probably am. i think my odds are VERY GOOD. dave bought it for a hundred bucks from a couple of potato dykes at their "seperation" yard sale.
Whiskey makes me wanna fight too. With supermodels. In a pool of whiskey. well like I said, I have a hard time understanding how she couldn't realise... But look at it like this. Have you ever heard someone talk about why a (actor/rockstar) shouldn't have done (such and such) and should be so content. As if they think money and fame are the key to contentment. It's kinda shallow in my eyes. Then when you said that Cate should shutup and happy being pretty, when she's doubting herself. She thought you were devaluing her feelings. She kinda lashed out cause she felt vunerable.
your attitude and confidence about yourself often make up for true plainess.. which instantly becomes the opposite. I don't mean anyone is plain right now I just mean if someone is.. if they have confidence in themselves it'll shine through.