while here attacks are entirely out of place, somewhere in her past is a person whose dignity was violated and hence she lashes out at others and you should not be the subject of her attacks hopefully she will find some inspiration to seek a healing
that healing costs money. and a whole lotta patience and enjoyment of pain. and sometimes, people are just crazy. i know that the first girl i worked with was just nuts. she'd yell at customers and have full on tantrums, scream at me. man, she was nuts.
does she only attack you at work or does she have this reputation with the rest of the staff? mamaKCita experience seems to be with a person who would even lash out at the manequins
yeah. this was working at the ice cream shop. a lady called to order an ice cream cake. j, who always pissed people off IMMEDIATELY with her petulant tone and generalized nastiness, yelled at the lady on the phone and the hung up on her. the phone rang again, and i made the naive mistake of picking it up. that woman started screaming at me for hanging up on her. even when i tried to explain it wasn't me at all, that i was just the fucking idiot who picked up after her, the bitch kept screaming. so i hung up on her. lol. ii used to have to tell the customers, after she'd pitched some psycho fit or another, that she forgot to take her meds. which would make her so mad that she'd leave the store entirely, leaving me to deal with the customers alone. that suited me just fine.
you know, cate, just about all of my best friends throughout life have been people who fought with me endlessly when i first met them. it seemed like TRUE HATE. but for some reason, we ended up very good friends. i know it doesn't make any sense. just don't let anyone walk all over you, and don't let them turn you into a martyr. sometimes people just need someone to shout right back into their faces.
