Please help me!! please

yeah but laura doesn't give us day to day up dates about how she continues to take pills.

I am sorry that you have gone through so much but read what you wrote the majority of your problems are self induced. and if your husband is so fucking great why the hell are you cheating on him? that's what I don't understand you complain about how no one's there for you but the one person who seems to stick by your side you continually turn your back on and cheat on. maybe that's why people are reluctant to give you sympathy here-because if you can be so cold to someone who bails you out of jail than how are you going to treat people you barely know who help you?

 

peanuts- bottom line. if i had an addiction in the past and i was taking that same drug for my back now... people would say something. once an addict, always an addict- its something you really should not gamble with. there are non-narcotics you can use for your back.
and big deal that you are a mother and have responsibilities... doh. that is to be expected of you- anything else would be pathetic.

that married man is my friend. i have never done anything with him and im sorry that he loves me. dan knows about it and i have kept talking to him because he was serious problems... ah, fuck it. i didnt do anything with him... i dont need to explain to you.

basically, i think that you are a rude person and a hypocrite.

marie- i did to stop posting drama a while ago.

seamonster...thank you. yes, i know i am fucked up. dan knows that too. we love each other... i love myself and i have only drank twice in over two months (not since that situation with the cop)... in any case, this thread was about me getting arrested but the people who LOVE to put others down, felt like dragging everything out about my life in the past two years.... when it wasnt even relevant. why? because they are nasty and mean people. at least they are acting like it right now.

 

the rational trying to have a discussion with the irrational...........

 

yeah, i know never to resist arrest now. honestly, i wasnt thinking then. like i said, i know it was completly stupid. i regret it so much. i fucked up and i know it.

well, i was directing this thread at my friends and also at any acquaintances that maybe would feel like ever donating a dollar... i didnt really care if people could help me out or not. to me this is life or death so i decided to ask. ah well.

i get what i get for posting stuff.

 

the people who LOVE to put others down, felt like dragging everything out about my life in the past two years.... when it wasnt even relevant. why? because they are nasty and mean people.



lol...and that is why a couple people stated that they were surprised by the harshness of some of the posters words...surprised to see posts like that from them.......yep that sounds typical of people who love to put others down, huh

 

lynsey... im NOT gonna mention the cheating thing one more time after this... i cheated on dan one time... told him about it. we are fine. the other times, we were considering divorce and having an open relationship. i dont care who believes me or not.

im not talking about this anymore. why? because ive stated it 10 times in this thread already.

 

doesnt mean it was relavant to the thread. doesnt mean it was neccasary. doesnt mean it wasnt rude. actually, there are a lot of flaws in your argument.

 

Marriage can't be just an open relationship. Sorry it just can't be.

 

quote: Marriage can't be just an open relationship. Sorry it just can't be.


says you....there is some serious moral relativism going on here.

 

Care to elaborate?

 

don't mention the cheating thing just look at those around you and see how your actions are affecting them and gain some self respect. If you can't respect yourself how can you respect someone else? Look how things are going you worked out your marriage but now your going to drain your husbands bank account because you fucked up-not fair and not right.

 

Once again, the same person knows what they are talking about.

 

okay, first of all. we are working out our marriage and are happy. second of al, yes... i fucked up and ive apologized to him over and over.

i am paying him back every penny though by selling my car and using my financial aid money.

 

this made me laugh

 

It would.

 

i have a question that i dont understand how it all works..
you say you have an open marriage and those times he knew about were not cheating...hmmm...well then how did you cheat on him once? wouldn't that one time be allowed too?

 

Yeah I have an issue with that post too.

We all know I am the best person here.

 

I am glad you are working out your marriage and I hope everything works out for you and I really hope you don't have to do anytime and can just get prob or rehab. I also hope that you kinda take this as a wake up call and not only look at yourself but your family and what you want out of life. there's more out there than this.

 

laura don't judge yourself like that you aren't this situation isn't even comparable with you and not because your 'perfect' but because you come to terms with yourself and take responsibility for your actions.