^yep. when women say things like that, it's kind of like the rich guy who can't comprehend why the homeless guy doesn't own a yacht.
I call bullshit on this. I always hear guys bitch about how women have it easier than men. I think a man can get laid just as easily as any woman can, yes by someone he is actually attracted to. You just have to know how to approach women and treat them well and make them laugh..
But in all fairness all a woman has to do is have boobs, and they don't even have to be spectacular. I think its just as hard for both sexes to get laid with someone you're actually attracted to, however.
Not true. As a women you could walk outside your door right now, flag some fool down off the street and say "Hey wanna fuck me?" and 9 times out of 10 he'll be more then willing and ready. Guys don't have it like that.
if that was true i would have had sex with at least a couple hundred women by now. of course, even if it was that simple, that would still mean it takes more for a man to get laid than a woman. he has to do all that; she basically just has to have a vagina.
Yeah well - I want to be a winner.(Don't get me wrong - I've done plenty of porn,I've just had enough of the fucking stuff.If you can handle it fine.Personally it doesn't help me that much.)
Well, there also has to be mutual attraction. I think it is that simple, men and women need to treat each other well, make each other laugh, plus the mutual attraction, this can all lead to sex. Do all that??? It really isn't much. Just treat someone well, something all humans should do in the first place. I think it's wrong of guys to always just assume they should be getting laid because they took a girl on a date. It's more than that. Once again, there has to be mutual attraction.
The only thing cooler than porn is having a chick who's really good to be around, and down to make home porn.
No, guys might not "have it like that" but women are not typically LIKE that either. This thinking is why Some guys call us "pussies" instead of "women" and IS likely part of the reason why "guys don't have it like that". You gotta think of women as human beings and partners in love and war and then we both have something we can mingle together with. And to be honest, I know a lot of men who a whole hoard of women would be all over because of their looks, it's when they think they are too sexy for their clothes that they "Don't have it like that" some good looking guys know they are good looking and they treat women like shit because of it. Is why I never go for looks anymore, been there, done it and didn't even get a lousy Tshirt from the cheap bastard,,,, hahahaha.
Your missing the point. This isn't about dating, or courtship or making a girl laugh and what not. It just a simple biological fact that women can get sex as easily as a dog can lick his crotch. Not even the best looking guy in the world can get sex as easily as an average looking women. I guess I better change my ways.
Anyway... I rarely watch porn- like, amateur stuff usually and usually w no sound once in a blue moon... like, really rare but not never. Anyways... I understand why some people say/think it's degrading to women but I don't think that is always the case. Sometimes, yes. Sometimes, not so much. In any case, I don't care if anyone else (my husband) watches it... as long as he's not watching it instead of being w me, which has never happened. Anyways, yea, porn just doesn't bother me and I don't care much about it either way.
I hear ya... but I tend to disagree. Most men I don't think have enough confidence around women in general. Or they are just too good doing the wrong things they think work... A good friend of mine has been with countless amounts of women because he is very confident, and very smart in the field, same with my roommate. He will leave cause bored and go get a girl without problems. Ill see her for a while and then he goes for someone else no problem... My oldest and best friend has scoliosis and is not the best looking dude. He has more game than anyone ive ever met. Confident, no ego, and brains. I know lots of women who have a very difficult time, and are frustrated not getting laid or even finding a man. It goes both ways most of the time.
I think what balances out this "who has it easier" thing is that, thiugh it is easier to get laid as an attractive woman than an attractive man (we postulate), it is much much harder to get laid as an unattractive woman than as an unattractive man. Fat chicks need booze or ghb.
