Premature ejaculation

Sex is at least 50% mental. You do screw with your brain, not only your penis. The two are hardwired together.

 

I am not yet perfect, but I did a lot of progress in lasting longer.

The keys were: knowing myself and relaxing. Relaxing my PC muscles was a revelation, particularly with intern stretching.

I recommand this to everyone. We are not always aware of all the stress (anxiety of performance) that accumulates there.

 

Hey, the techniques sound great! I just wouldn't have any idea how to propose these to my bf. I am not sure if around 5 mins is considered a premature ejaculation? Sometimes it's more, sometimes it's just about 5 mins. We haven't talked about it directly, because I can feel how frustrated he gets when it happens and sometimes just sighs - sorry, babe. I tell him to relax, hug him, kiss him, tell him how much I love him and enjoy doing it with him. He looks embarrassed and I wouldn't know how to help him. I don't want to hurt his ego. I have never badly commented about his performance. I am scared to bring it up too. Since I got off the birth control pill (it was turning me into a crazy), we have been using condoms, and he doesn't really like it, because of less feeling, so even though he looks really turned on, his penis gets soft in between changing positions or pulling out. What can I do to help him? Thank you so much!

 

apparently the exchange of sexual fluids has antidepressant properties.

tell him to watch porn and masturbate till he's close to cumming then stopping until arrousal subsides.

 

The actual penetration of the penis into the vagina is really a very small percentage of the time spent during sex. I suffer from premature ejaculation due to being on Haldol, an anti-psychotic medication. It seems to make the sensations on the penis very intense, and I just can't hold back for more than about a minute. I have very intense orgasms, usually no problem getting erect, I just don't last more than a minute. And yet my wife says she is happy with our sex life, and I don't believe she is lying. I always massage her whole body, starting with her back and moving to more erogenous areas as she gets aroused. I have learned to massage her clitoris area in a way that she really enjoys and feels good. So in spite of my short comings, she seems to be happy.

 

Moving this up so people can find it who need it.

 

She has the face of a goddess! If i stare directly at her i will "pre" my pants. lol. anyone? anyone? workaholics

 

ok you guys you have a problem coming quick what can i do to came quick, i mean i cannot come i last for hours and sometimes i just want to come but i cannot. at list you are coming and enjoying it, i on the other hand need a long time to come, and by long time i mean hours . damn it

 

Honestly though my goal is to get that beautiful girl under me and know that she's beautiful! I've screwed enough not so hot girls to not want to go down that road anymore...

My secret is to masturbate before or keep them going after I've cum and then take them on round 2...because the second time is about an hour and half long...And it takes me forever to cum...! That's my secret...As long as they let me go round 2.

 

Just tried p-boost after reading some reviews about it. Worked good but pretty pricey. The trial was free but you have to pay for the shipping which was quick. Anyone know any coupon codes for p-boost.com?

 

Bringing this thread back to the front so people can find it, as over 26,000 already have...

 

thanks for retarding my orgasm. i will name my kids after you

 

lol great show RUUUUUUUDE!!!

 

Others who have been helped have done it. PM me and I will give you the real name to use...

 

Let me know if these ten techniques have helped you. Post here or PM me...

 

Are you like a premature ejaculation therapist or something?

 

Yes...

 

Premature ejaculation is the most common problem for young men, especially when they are beginning their sexual adventures with the other sex. It is easily overcome...

 

Who will be the 30,000th person to visit this thread?

 

HI Cutted, I've read the entire thread, some good info here. However I have tried pretty much everything and nothing seems to work. I'm currently in a relationship and have frequent sex. We currently use a condom and I can last a few mins using the stop start technique. If there wasn't a condom I wouldn't last a min.

I do frequently masturbate and try to 'edge' for at at least 20mins before coming. The thing is I usually do this with porn and lube. Is this advisable?

Also does anyone have any thoughts on Fleshlights? I've read (mostly from people selling them) that its more intense and easier to train yourself to last longer with one.