Prenuptial Agreements

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Frieden, Dec 28, 2008.

  1. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    nope, I mate for life. Andy made sure I am taken care of financialy if something happens to him before we even got married. If someone asked me to sign a pre-nup I would take it as a huge insult and lack of belief in my moral character.
     
  2. Face Eater

    Face Eater Banned

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    I would have to decide when I got to that stage of my life. I am still a boy with no prospects. Who knows what I'll own or who I'll trick into marrying me in a few years time.
     
  3. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    actually I take that back...I got married with a lot of debt and Nevada has a law where if you divorce debt, even pre-existing debt is split down the middle. I offered to get a document notarized stating my hubby wouldn't assume my debt, but Andy declined.
    So I guess I would, but not if I was asked to, only if I was offering
     
  4. deviate

    deviate Senior Member

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    I'm too romantic for that, it would ruin the vibe.
     
  5. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    I would imagine they are only useful if you are marrying Donald Trump, who is already cheating on you with his next wife.
     
  6. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    i would.
    But there would be more than just conditions regarding money and assets.
    Such as cheating. kids, if there are any. pets. the like.
    I wouldnt be offended. I am too much of a cynic to expect all to be roses and sunshine. shit happens. everyone needs to be protected.
     
  7. Hippie McRaver

    Hippie McRaver Senior Member

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    I will only get married if I have a prenup. Why trust people? even if they are the one you are supposed to spend your life with, they could be a total douche bag loser gold digger.
     
  8. lode

    lode Banned

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    If a golddigger marries me for money, shes pretty dumb.
     
  9. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    I had a former dick who is pretty wealthy. Even though we werent in a real relationship, I never even let him buy me beer.
    money makes me uncomfortable.
    I love me a poor man.
     
  10. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    I think they should sign an agreement that says I can kill them if they try to leave...and eat their liver. Then I would know they really love me.
     
  11. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    or their nads.
     
  12. Gravity

    Gravity #winning

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    I'd definitely ask my S/O to sign one. I'd be a fool not to.
     
  13. goodvibes83

    goodvibes83 Senior Member

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    i dont know. if i have a life partner, i doubt I'll get married, unless I financially need those tax benefits. I think coexisting and intertwining the lives of two people can be a beautiful tihng, but why is marriage desired by so many people (that is something that boggles my mind).

    however if i ever do get married, I'll sign prenup if I am financially well off. If I am not, and I am not requested to sign one, I probably won't. Sounds coniving, but I mean I am not one to marry or date for money. I am not superficial like that by any means, and the guy I am with should know this, and trust I have no ill intentions. But then, aren't I being a hypocrite? But thats why I don't want to get married.
     
  14. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    I never realized how many people were opposed to prenups...or found them insulting...

    I am letting no one take all my collections, NO ONE!
     
  15. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    I bet his hair comes with it's own prenup....

    I sho' dig that do...
     
  16. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    I just don't see the point unless one person is far more wealthy or far more in debt than the other. In that case, sure.

    You collections are priceless. And by priceless, I mean no one would give you money for them...:biggrin: Except GanjaKing...
     
  17. MrFrosty

    MrFrosty Banned

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    With how high the divorce rate is right now it is really naive to not have a prenupt when you get married. I don't understand why people look at it as you not trusting the other person or not thinking things are going to last. I see it as two adults being honest with eachother so that if the unthinkable happens you will be covered. Its like saying, "I don't think I am ever going to get sick, so I don't need to have any health insurance."
     
  18. veiled1

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    man have any of ya ever been divorced?? Its &*(&*( Brutal man !!! Dont even get married it aint worth it.. I dont care what anyone offers..Dont ever..
     
  19. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    Too late...
     
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