problems dealing with ex-gf

Plus the way everyone's talking about it makes it sound like your child. "Please, I just want my xbox, that's all I want..."

 

Lol, I can see how it would be pretty funny.

But yeah, I def want that shit back. Fuck the girl at this point, it's not even worth trying to salvage and I don't want to anyway.

 

fuckin a, i'm coming to realize that i'm incredibly lonely and that i've just been trying to ignore that and hide it from myself, and taking her out of my life just highlighted it to me and made me notice.

idk. like at college i don't really talk to any girls, but i think that's largely because most girls aren't worth the effort. most people aren't actually. that's def exacerbated by the fact that i go to school in miami though.

 

dude, get your x box back man.....

if you gotta give her some lovin first to grease the wheels........is it that bad????

get you x box man, eyes on the prize!!!!

 

I made a bet today with one of my friends from college that I'd be able to get it back within a week, so hopefully that'll give me a reason to go take care of it. Just gotta wait for her to get back from her "vacation" so I can head over there and get the xbox from her.

 

Well, she got back from her trip last night, and starting texting the shit out of me today and calling repeatedly to try to get me to talk to her, but I kept ignoring her.

Eventually had to answer her, because she starting sending like 20 of the same text in a row, and my phone vibrating repeatedly was pissing me off.

I'm just gonna put the whole conversation starting from when I actually responded, because it's absolutely ridiculous, and infuriating.

Her: I'm not giving up until you talk to me, so you might as well just resolve this with me. (Sent many, many times in a row)

Me: What is there to resolve? and can you bring over my xbox at some point soon, i want it back.

Her: No. Not until we're friends again.

Me: Bullshit. I didn't put any conditions on it when I lent it to you.

Her: I want to see you. I want to resolve this. You are my friend. I want to see you. You want it back? Come get it.

Her again: Why are you still SO mad at me? Do you really want to stop being my friend because of something some prick did?

Me: Yes.

Her: Fuck that. Have fun. I'm going to go play my xbox.

Her again: Wait ... no. You are my friend. You're going to talk to me. We're going to hang out. Tomorrow. I'll give you the xbox then. If we discuss this.

Her again again: yes?

me: fine.

after that discussion of what time.

But seriously, what the fuck? she basically held the xbox hostage to reel me back in. i agreed to go over there just because it seems like the easiest way to get it back, but after that she's done, i'm never talking to her again. she's fucking crazy.

 

Get

another

Xbox.

 

Why can't you just go to her house and get it?

 

this

 

this is what you do.


go to her house.
get the xbox.
leave.

 

dont know if you solved this dilemma already or not, Im too lazy to read all three pages but dude, you need to not be such a pussy. It pains me to see a guy so immasculated by some broad. Especially over a video game console. Resprout a set. No insult intended, just my advice. Peace

 

no car. makes things much harder.

 

ask a friend by saying "hey wanna come play xbox with me? we just have to pick it up from my friends house"

 

dude, she's fucking relentless, and impossible to get rid of. i fucking dumped her by text, which obviously should have been enough to make her get the message, but she still wants me somehow, and she's one of those really controlling girls where she's really good at getting what she wants.

 

then forget the xbox! and stop communaticating with her. change your number or buy a go phone.

 

K dude I didn't feel it necessary to share this story, but when I was in high school I lent a gf my first electric guitar. I forgot about it we broke up and I started dating a chick she hated who had hugh tits. I ask her a biliion times for my axe back cause it was my first. She always told me to fuck off. Stoned and VERY fed up one day I walked 3 hours to her house and rang the door bell. Her mother answered and asked who I was. I told her that I had been fucking her daughter for the past two years and that she had my guitar under her bed and that either she could go and get it or I would. Three and a half hours later I was stoned, hanging out with my new big tittied gf playing my old guitar again and I was in heaven. Peace and GROW SOME BALLS!

 

am i right in wanting to cut her out of my life? in my opinion she's fucking psycho batshit crazy, but i'm curious what an outside perspective on her looks like.

 

dude you are TOTALLY right..........cut that bitch off as soon as you can man.

 

thanks man. good to hear that i'm not just being a jackass and throwing away a good relationship.

 

dude I mean this in the best way....learn to listen to yourself more.....all the answers you could ever want come from inside....introspect is a great thing. You are doing the right thing though....