pull out method worries

It takes one lucky little sperm to hit the mark, are you sure you pulled out right on time ???

 

OMG - the misinformation here is stunning.

Unless one of us states specifically that we are Dr's specialising in reproductive issues - treat everything here with serious doubt. Including what I'm about to say...

All the studies I've read claim "pre-cum" DOES NOT contain sperm. It is a fluid whose purpose is to create a favourable enviroment for the sperm on the way - by clearing out the eurethra of acidic fluid - like urine. However - sperm CAN remain in the eurethra (and viable) for a day or more - so unless he's urinated between ejaculations - there is risk that "left over" sperm could be introduced to the vagina.

Yes, technically it takes "one sperm" - but realistically, MILLIONS die in the process and men are considered infertile at merely low sperm counts - not zero. So saying "it just takes one" is technically correct but doesn't reflect the actual odds of a small amount of sperm (say a few million) being available actually resulting in a fertilized egg.

The pull out method has a terrible reputation because men typically have terrible control. The failure rate is due to "user error" - not biology. No sperm being released in the vagina means no pregnancy. So a "successful" pull-out, BEFORE ejaculation is technically safe (but not from STDs!). However - does the guy have control and enough self-awareness to manage that? Doubtful - but possible. I think this is NOT true of any teenage boy. ; )

The forces of passion and love are incredibly powerful and will overcome all your logic and ethics in the heat of coupling. So KNOW your stuff before hand and play safe.

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No one said per-cum had any sperm in it, and i was just make an analogy that all it takes is one sperm to fertilize an egg, so why risk it ??? It's not a good method....

 

Does nobody actually jerk off anymore?

Before you 'cum', along with the precum, cum will come out. You can even fucking see it EXTREMELY clearly... Precum is clear, cum is not, the closer you get to cumming, the more you will see cum mixing with the precum.

To those who claim to have years and years of success with the pull-out method... go get a fertility test done on both you and your partner. Even if it comes back that you are perfectly fine, to suggest that the pull out method is effective is not only wrong, but harmful.

Like these kids who read this forum need any more reason to risk pregnancy.

Here's a hint for those of you who have missed basic biology classes...

Having a vasectomy, using a condom, the woman being on the pill, using the 'rhythm method', the 'pullout method', AND even the 'pray to the gods' method... ALL AT THE SAME TIME, will NOT guarantee you don't get pregnant.

If the dick goes in the pussy, pregnancy can happen.

If you aren't ready for that responsibility, DONT have vaginal intercourse.

 

lmfao. just use a condom. Did they not teach you in school that pulling out is ridiculous? It's not that difficult to slap a rubber on there, seriously.

 

pretty sure the pull out method is never brought up in sex ed...

 

Ya know - you guys are right. I'm getting to caugth up in the technical accuracy of things. The last thing people need are increased risks based on "technicalities". So let's assume that when naked penis meets unprotected vagina (No foam, IUD, "ring", pill etc) then pregnancy CAN happen. Don't mess with it. At all.

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In this post: Lies.

Unless your woman or you had fertility issues. But what the fuck do I know? I'm just a nurse.

Pull-out method has a LOW chance of working, unless combined with the rhythm method. Then it's okay.

 

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It was here XD Absolutely. Especially because most younger people thing it's okay to just pull out, because it seems to make sense... when you're younger. But of course, like others have said, you can definitely get pregnant this way. It only takes one sperm.

 

The pull out method is not reliable whatsoever. Men can actually ejaculate a small amount without even knowing it before the climax... best to get another method.

 

My 2nd daughter is the result apparently of a botched pullout method.. just telling ya..

You might wanna look into "natural family planning". It's not that hard to learn to clock your cycle and learn the signs that you're fertile. Then you can just use spermicide around the times you're fertile..

Has been working great for me since I made the switch..

 

just go on the pill...its the easiest method. still get to enjoy no condom and not have to worry. you can even get the pill without your parents knowing if thats the case too.

 

Not saying this is the best method, but when its used properly, it actually is effective.

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control/withdrawal-pull-out-method-4218.htm

 

I just had a pregnancy scared caused by the pull out method. lol I was looking frantically on the internet for ways to induce your period. Anyway, I got it today. But it is so not worth it. Get on the pill or use a condom, seriously.

 

Why not use all of those methods and develop various forms of cancer, mental disorders and permanent infertility? You could top it off by going to a plastic surgeon and having a synthetic sheath "installed" in your vagina and the BF could just fish around with his weener til he finds it and fuck that instead... be very erotic and conducive to the relationship, kind of like a cow doing one of those jizz socks.

 

just let follow through and enjoy him filling you
besides your already most of the way to letting him do this you never know it may feel real good and you just get over the whole condom/pull out thing and begin to enjoy sex on a deeper level

 

Cause condoms make your dick fall off

 

well, how have you made out?

 

I can't believe people are fucking dumb enough on here to be defending pulling out to a 19yo.
OP should get the shot and not even tell her bf..problem solved.