Pushed into a Bi Life?

I don’t think a women’s self esteem and being bi are connected.

 

When my first wife had to get a hysterectomy due to a horrible case of endometriosis, one of the things her doctor told her was that this could trigger menopause in her early and, no, she wasn't a candidate for hormone replacement therapy due to her being diabetic. The poor woman cried her heart out on the way home from the doctor's office and said that if they took out her plumbing, it would make her less of a woman. Of course, I told her that it didn't and that this was, as the doc told her, the only way to end the endometriosis. The surgery was successful; her recovery could have gone better but everything was okay... and I don't think she ever really recovered from that "less than a woman" thing. Her self-esteem took a hard hit, she quickly lost interest in sex with me and ultimately became a lesbian, which I was okay with but, man, it sucks when you know your woman is really hurting inside and no one - me or any professional she went to - could even try to restore her self-esteem.

Two things for me. One, I was already bisexual and thanks to our open marriage arrangement, I wasn't lacking in being able to get cock. The other was our poly wife who loved to have sex so she "picked up the slack" from my wife and even after she underwent her own hysterectomy for endometriosis.

She had said that she was still a woman, her pussy still worked, and it was still my job to keep fucking her when she needed fucking.

 

Wasn't pushed into it, as much as led into that direction by my wife.

 

Not pushed into it, but definitely very curious about it.

 

In my case coaxed would be the word I would use but much the same I suppose. Gently coaxed and then there was no looking back.