Pushed into a Bi Life?

They expect you to do absolutely nothing about your needs. Don't even ask. I've always asked women, "If you're not going to fuck him, who's supposed to?" and they have said, "Nobody is!" followed by ranting and cursing and "he better not" kind of shit but then, on the other hand, they wonder why he'd cheat on her and "worse," why he'd choose to sleep with a guy.

 

Everybody has needs, and a married couple should need each other. Rather, a married couple should want each other. If they don't, something's wrong and they need to put serious effort into putting fire in each other's hearts again or they need to go their separate ways and figure out their own thing.
Not that I'm saying an open marriage wouldn't work either. But those can be challenging and that's better as a choice for its own sake not as a solution for a marital problem. Or so I hear.

 

Can an open marriage be a solution to certain marital problems? Yes. The problem is that most people don't know how to do this without fucking up the foundation that is their marriage; it's supposed to be about us and not just me. Can it facilitate those who have a bisexual need? Yes. Can one be pushed into this? Yes; my first wife pushed me into being open because, bluntly, she needed pussy, too. Worked out nice for us and for well over twenty years. I know I wasn't the only husband pushed into being open by a wife who had this need. Anyway. A married couple should always want and need each other but, um, if the want and need is in the form of same-sex, it's like I've told many a woman: When I need some dick, baby, you don't have one. The need isn't going to go away; I'll take all the pussy they want to throw at me but I still need to suck cock and I will be a miserable son-of-a-bitch until I can do that.

How about you guys?