Question for Men about Erections

Well,I was actually going to start a thread about this particular topic for both the males & females (stay tuned). I guess it depends on in what way I find her unattractive. Like if she has a shitty personality,sometimes I think I'd like to make her my sub-bitch but then I think,"ehh,I wouldn't give her the time of day." Other times if there's a physically unattractive female but has a shining personality,that will overshadow the unattractiveness & I'll eventually start to think of her on her knees or something,lol.

But no,I wouldn't say I think of EVERY female attractive or not,in this way.

 

Just a fleeting thought about something sexual can get me hard.

 

Yes, my dear citygirl! I'm at that age where your friend is, and yes he can get one just seeing you. The kissing? Yes, yes! This is the 'fear-of-fading' age, the 'will-I-be-alone- forever' age. That engenders a wonderful fixation on a solution (you!). No fixation is worth it's salt without a glorious sexual side - real or fanticised. And every male in the world will deny this. "Not me, I can take care of myself!" That may be true excepting one area: we are lousy at caring for our own emotions. And emotions run the railroad!! The good news is that if he's a good guy, wealthy beyond dreams of avarice, warm and fuzzy to the touch, etc., and is fanticising to the point of 'extending' at the very thought of you, you are in luck - he's a good catch for boyfriend, lover, confidant (as much as any man can be a woman's confidant!) or - -- husband (if you are interested.) Definitely worth checking out. Women, never be afraid of erections. They are significant as a warning, as a show of emotion, and as a dear friend if used properly. Don't worry, citygirl, m'dear, I know your karma and it will serve you well!! May you find happiness in all you do.

 

thanks Fastswitch, you are very insightful! I guess, maybe he is a little

attracted to me.

 

For the most part very easily without any direct stimulation. Looking at photos of nude women or porn gives my one quickly. without visual stimulation just the anticipation of an encounter gives me one quickly also. Any physical stimulation, ie... loose boxer shorts can also give me one as well. I'm 41 now, its only slightly less of problem than when I was in my teens

 

Well, to answer the original question (I think) I can get an erection just holding a girl's hand or looking into her eyes. French kissing? Hell, I get hard as a rock from that. So, if a guy's getting hard from just looking at you, I really don't think that's too unusual. Must say something for your looks, too....

 

I get an erection almost as often as i stand up every day. Just daydreaming seems to steer my thoughts towards sex, or mild fantasy. Frankly, it can be awkward sometimes, particularly at work, as i don't wear any underwear. Ho hum..

 

Many men (me included) often wake up in the morning with a "woodie", an erection which may be associated somewhat with a full bladder pressing against the prostate gland.

 

Erections are crazy. I can get them just by reading something erotic, or thinking about sex, and sometimes they just appear without warning, though less so as I've got older.

I certainly get one watching porn, and still often wake up in the morning with a rock hard one. Sometimes I wake up in the night with one as well. I believe spontaneous erections while you're asleep happen to most men several times each night.

These days they don't last as long as they did when I was younger, but I guess that's life.

 

I get em all the time. SOmetimes for no reason at all. Most of the time it stays hard after I cum. All the girls I have been with said I should do porn b/c it never gets limp

 

Nah, life sucks and that would get you hard. It must be something else that makes a penis less eager as it gets more experience.

 

After a guy reaches a certain age, his memory is the second thing he loses. I can't remember what the first is.

Generally I get turned on because my sperm production has reached a certain level and is sending signals up my spinal chord asking for some release. If I'm in the private company of an attractive available woman, that doesn't hurt. Sometimes the thought of doing something really forbidden can be a trigger. It's also necessary that I'm not sick, in pain, angry or overfed.

As someone once said, if you're in the mood, Popular Mechanics will seem erotic. If not, no erotic magazine will do the trick, and neither will just about any companion. A woman shouldn't take it personally if her lover can't get it on occasionally.

 

I have an erection as soon as I wake up in the morning, right before bed at night, and usually throughout the night. I am quite capable of ahem, "summoning" one at any time, as needed.

Usually, if I even begin to imagine being intimate with my girlfriend, instant erection. Usually my greatest (i.e., hardest, and most impressive! ) erections occur while dreaming of her, or talking with her.

I hear that age has some impact on these things, but I just can't imagine not being able to control your own erection. I mean, I hope that's never an issue with me.

 

62 and don't have any problem getting an erection. Regularly wake up with one !

 

and you dont have any problem getting up 5 yr old threads either..

 

at least he searched instead of making another thread :d


I have trouble not having them

and they keep waking me up poking me in the eye

 

There are a lot of factors at play here, and perhaps I'll throw my two cents in....

I probably woke up with a HUGE erection every day of my life from the age of 16 until my early 50's, and it wasn't necessarily because I was turned on (although I have always been a pretty horny guy who likes morning romance). A doctor once explained that the male body has a sort of "valve" called a Cowper's Gland that shuts off the urine system so that we can have sex, making it virtually impossible to pee during intercourse. What happens is that, during sleep, we obviously get a fairly full bladder, and instinctively we get a hard-on to keep from peeing. My girlfriends always were amazed at my "morning wood" and often jumped aboard while I was still asleep. What fun.

But that isn't really the OP's question, is it? What she's wondering is if this guy who always has a boner is attracted to her. Well, maybe yes and maybe no. If he's stiff and hard, he obviously wants to have sex with you (or himself, I suppose) but it could just be that he's a horribly horny guy who is always ready. I admit I'm that way at times, and I start thinking about having sex with women I wouldn't ordinarily think of as being really attractive.

And -- and observation about somebody's comment about getting turned on my sitting on a stool -- NO, you can't get an erection simply because of how you sit. For both men and women, arousal is almost entirely a state of mind. Yes, if someone strokes your private parts you'll probably get an erection, but all that does is trigger the thought. I've had it go exactly the opposite way; a girl I didn't like started sucking on me, and I'll be darned if my johnson didn't shrivel up and hide. I just couldn't do it.

Having a constant erection is a double-edged sword. If the OP wants sex frequently, this situation can be pretty handy, but there will probably be times when she says, "put that thing away before you poke somebody's eye out!"

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A quick joke, on topic:

The man goes into Pharmacy that happens to be owned by a pair of beautiful women. After shuffling and stalling, he finally gets up the nerve to approach the two pharmacists. He explains, "This is quite embarrassing, but I have a constant erection. I mean, I have a hard on in the morning, afternoon, and evening. I can have sex, and ten minutes it's back. What can you give me for it?"

The two women ask for a minute to confer, and the man can see them in the an animated discussion in the back area, looking in books and writing down notes. Finally, they return to the pharmacy counter.

One of the women says, "So, your question is, 'what can we give you for a constant erection?' Right--?"

"Correct," replies the man.

"Well," she continues, "my sister and I talked it over, and the best we can do is give you $30,000 and half the business...!"

 

That is an oxymoron. There hasn't been a woman yet that men aren't attracted to. See "When Harry Met Sally" for research results.

Most men get an erection just by thinking about Sandra Bullock. I got one just by typing her name, and I'm 96 years old.

 

lulz...

 

“Rising to the occasion can depend on the dish that is laid before one”
I don’t think so much it’s the age (51 yrs young) I think it can depend on the physicality of one’s body
So best keep it finely tuned – methinks