Question For The Guys

i dont get any attachment if i dont know the girl, if i dont like her, if we didnt get along very well. Im just in it for the sex most of the time.
(i know im a bastard but you only live once so im not turning down any sex at my age because if i do i know ill regret it when im 40 and have been sleeping with the same woman for the past 10 years).

 

Hi, Dreamer

i know you asked only for guys to answer, but i wanted to say that everything that peacefuljeffrey said is true . and i know this as a girl who had similar situation when i was 14

 

Probably because you, like most women, choose to go out with scumbags. There are plenty of very nice, loving, gentle men out there, only you choose not to like them. You probably think they're weirdos, angry loners, or stalkers or something. Perhaps you should try looking for different men.

 

Are you serious?
Do you think that guys don't have any attachemnt to someone when they have sex?
If you have been hurt by EVERYONE you have been with it might be the type of lover you are picking.
Try another type of person.
Why?
It's YOUR CHOICES.
If you really want to change anything in life-CHANGE YOUR MIND.

 

Come on Seamus, what's with that big ass signature? And the damn thing has a moire pattern like you scanned it in off a printed piece. Good God O'mighty!

 

I was really afraid of this situtation when I was your age and starting to become sexually active. I talked about it with my older cousin who was just like a big sister to me, and she gave me some great advice that I'd love to pass on to you. Plain and simple, just dont have sex with anyone until they've already proven to you that there is an attachment or emotions invovled. It can get hard at times, but I never let that plan down, and I was saved from tons of the emotional damage I watched my friends go through. And the best thing was, I knew when we finally did have sex that it was because he was really into me, and not just wanting some ass. Its worth it i promise.

 

Assholes that hurt u should die, srry some of us r deuch bags. srry uv been hurt, maybe if u find the right dude, i gave up for a while but now i like "her" a lot its great.

 

p.s. yes we do feel much attachment during sex etc. unless i guess if it were a hooker or something then probly not, but if thier freinds or whatever then definatly