Question for the laides

I think I'm actually a lot like you, might be wrong, I'm not sure. I believe in people loving a person for who they are exactly. Yes, there is a such thing as compromise but if it changes you in a way that isn't to your liking and isn't really you then you just have to come to terms that maybe you aren't right for each other.

When I'm with a guy, it's for who they are. It's isn't artificial for money or looks or status. I've had guys pushed on me by friends and family because they came from good money or where up there with contacts. I've been told that some of my ex's lack in looks. I don't care much about any of that as long as the person takes care of themselves and lives a healthy life-style. After all, the only important values in relationships to me is; honesty, trust, loyalty and love.

I know there aren't many like me but I always give a relationship my 100%. I'm loyal to a fault in the sense that I don't second guess their actions, I give them the benefit of the doubt, trust too completely and end up walked all over because of it. I don't even look at another in a sexual manner when I'm in a relationship. I don't even think of looking, it's like subconcious to me. If I'm really into a guy, that's it.

If I was really into a guy it wouldn't be for their faults (or lack of). Faults always seem to become less the more you fall for a person. If you find a girl that can truely focus on the good and as long as the good qualities and important morals stick with you, the rest really shouldn't matter.

You'll find her when you least expect it. Just keep in mind that there are all different types of people. With how much this world is starting to over-populate there will at least be one person in your life time that fits into the life-style you have. Don't settle for less but don't cheat yourself out of finding someone just because they are a little different from you.

And yes, I've been told from time to time that I'm rather long winded.

 

Damn, thats some good advice too

 

That's actually the type I usually am attracted to. Now if the person's a douchebag moron stoner, then I'm usually just annoyed.

But if he's a good guy, with a heart (even if he does hide it.. I do the same thing), then I can usually tell, and I make it a goal of mine to figure out who he really is, under the drugs, under the facade.

I also drink like a fish, and smoke pot and basically do anything I can get a hold of. I think I scare off a lot of guys when I just tip back a bottle of whiskey and chug.

 

i like a guy a lot right now who smokes weed and cigs, and drinks. and it doesnt turn me off at all. in fact sometimes a guy who smokes turns me on idk why. But as long as ur not ALWAYS on something, and ur nice to her and make her feel wanted and stuff like and ur not mean when ur drunk, u shouldnt have a problem haha. Just go with it, im sure you'll find someone oneday. peace