Question For Women?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by RainCheck, Dec 2, 2012.

  1. RainCheck

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    That's fine but we weren't talking about right and wrong though. We were talking about who's better
     
  2. GordonSummers

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    And I was saying that Female = Superior.
     
  3. RainCheck

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    It is well known that men are generally considered the dominant superior sex. All the great discoveries and inventions were made by men. And most great musicians are men. And what do you mean "Females get and can feel so many epic things we couldn't even hope to feel" Are you a female?? I can feel all the emotions that there are
     
  4. GordonSummers

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    I am not speaking of simple emotions, and I really am a male. But can any females pitch in and at least try to explain the capability of these things to another male without making it sound creepy?

    I don't think I can do that mainly because I am a male, but I will try if I must.

    EDIT: And does no man on earth besides me know the importance of the understanding of love?
    Anyone who has played or even heard of the content of any of "The Witcher" games would know what I mean when I say "Elves have an understanding of love deeper than any human could even hope to imagine" and also understand that the level of understanding that they had is so deep, that the most sensual orgasm anyone here can imagine is like a few simple humps to them.

    Why do more men not desire this? Even if only a female could have these feelings, would no man other than me wish for love so intimate?
     
  5. I'minmyunderwear

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    the bread winner thing is changing pretty quickly. and both genders have sex equally, but due to the dating game women are the ones that get to choose when and with who this sex will occur.

    ultimately, men and women are approximately equal. they just have different strengths which balance them out. women just appear to have the upper hand because one of men's greatest strengths: physical superiority, is negated by the fact that it's illegal to go around beating people up.
     
  6. monkjr

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    I want to say yes. But I know that the truth is with that particular individual chick. Based on what my female friends have told me they have said they decided pretty quick, but were also quick to point out that other factors matter as well. (Ex: location on where to do it, timing, and if the guy played his peas and ques well throughout the entire date, one wrong observation or comment can turn the night into a "No", "Cold shoulder", and a polite end of the night.)



    Women and men are equal but different, each capable of doing each others tasks, if they willed themselves to learn.

    But generally speaking girls/women tend to be aware of their surroundings more than boys/men. And there are crucial brain differences between the sexes but I wouldn't classify either as inferior or superior.

    A new question needs to be asked such as:

    "What tasks are men or women best suited for generally speaking? Do the traditional sterotypes hold up on any logical merits or does the recent trend of women holding more and more jobs that men have traditionally held before debunk that belief?
     
  7. RainCheck

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    The "capability of" what things.. and why would it sound "creepy"?? Kid, you're referring to a video game to back up your argument.. therefore you have waived your right to be taken seriously. Having an orgasm to males is about alot more than a few simple humps. Males including myself crave for an orgasm with emotional attachment too. How dare you say men don't understand love..

    EDIT: you are talking out your backside
     
  8. monkjr

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    Truth be told, and there are a significant amount of men, out there that crave sex for just the physical pleasure of the sex and orgasm though.

    The OP didn't say outright that all men are only about the physical though, they're obviously talking about a subset of men who are like this.

    His " And does no man on earth besides me know the importance of the understanding of love?"

    comment is striking me as rhetorical for discussion's sake.
     
  9. Mayor Salt

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    Men and women are different, but we have more similarities than we have differences. This is why the best, most intense, profound, and fulfilling relationships are between those who are best friends as well as lovers, and truly understand each other.

    As for the OP, I'm sure some women just "decide" and that's it. I know that for me, there have been moments when attraction just clicked in my head, whether it was on a first date or a sixth date or after being friends for years.

    Doesn't everyone have the experience of realizing they're attracted to someone?

    It doesn't always mean you're going to get to have the person you're attracted to, but that realization of attraction... that happens in a moment, so it can feel like a "decision" even when it's more of a process.
     
  10. I'minmyunderwear

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    i don't know... obviously there is a first moment of attraction, but it's not like it goes from nothing to attracted. you realize that someone has some attractive qualities, then you start to notice more attractive qualities, then you start being slightly less attracted to other people, then you officially want this person. it really is more of a gradual process than a "click."
     
  11. RainCheck

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    I just realised today that I am more attracted to a particular girl than I thought?
     
  12. I'minmyunderwear

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    i don't know, did you? it's certainly possible.
     
  13. Mayor Salt

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    Yeah, that's why I said it was a process... but there is a moment when you consciously realize it.
     
  14. darlajones2222

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    It depends on the woman. Some woman won't sleep with a guy until marriage while others are just opposite- will sleep with you once you put on some heavy moves that they just can't resist.. You know, in the heat of the moment type of thing.

    Get to know the woman first, see what she likes. Find out what she is about. Taking your time is more fun than you think!
     
  15. YouFreeMe

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    Oddly, it happens the moment that I meet them.
     
  16. SairaxxBolumite

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    I don't mind sleeping with guys who i am attracted to and if they have a mutual attraction to me, but I will admit that I am paranoid about STD's and pregnancy so condom use is mandatory if we have intercourse but I enjoy other things more than intercourse like oral for example and I like to get to know guys first before jumping into bed with them.
     
  17. RainCheck

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    I hope they're not a rare breed. But how do they cope without having sex when they could have it so easily? I mean I know they might have a lot of respect for themselves, but still.. after being in a relationship for several months with someone they may love.....
     
  18. McFuddy

    McFuddy Visitor

    Unfortunately so few women actually commented on this thread, and at least one of those who actually did was a sexist pig.
     
  19. RainCheck

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    Are you referring to (i need a miracle)?

    The women must be trying hard to keep their mystery!!
     
  20. calgirl

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    I'm a woman, and I responded. Admittedly, my decisions may be premature about someone. If there is repeated exposure to them, I might find I can become attracted, or the opposite, I realize I'm no longer interested. This goes for potential friends as well as lovers. Most definitely though, it's deliberate from the beginning, no subconscious. Yet, I know I'm not always right about someone.
     

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