Shit, forgiving myself for believing in something that was nothing is not too hard, I've done it before. You are right... having the right mind set will is like the foundation to a house.
You're going to be loved by someone so much better down the road and are goign to be thankful you got passed up. You might even laugh.
Thanks. Sometimes the things you think you want, aren't what you want at all. I realized I've been in love with the wrong man, three years later.
well that's very true, sometimes what we want isn't what we need.. but it's also true that with a lot of willpower, you can get anything you want - now that might also not be quite what you should get but.. if you wanna have what you think you should have, then you can have that! and the first step is realizing what you need, which you already have! it's something you can be proud of.. better than remaining in denial!
One person isn't many. :tongue: I'm willing to guess my hormones or something in on a fritz, I've had so many changes of heart lately. I came to the conclusion that I don't want to work it out with HIM, I don't think it's worth it anymore... I think I've fallen out of love... I'm confused and I've had some mixed feelings about other people that I thought didn't exist anymore.
I'm waiting for that realization to hit any time now since everything is changing so much at the moment, but I don't think it's quite registered yet. Anyhow.. good luck to you angel, different can be very good!