I've always said there's nothing wrong with women approaching men for sex. Just because it's been a sexist taboo in the past (stud v slut), men & women both have sexual desires (even if most men tend to be more driven in this way), in this day & age it should be accepted that they have just as much right to initiate NSA sex as anyone else.
I'm not married Also, my girlfriend and I agree 100% on exactly what kind of house we should have (small) and what kind of decorations there will be. I LOVE her taste in almost everything, and I look forward to the day when we can decorate our first home together. We both also value smaller, european cars, and hopefully by the time we are ready to invest in one, electric or diesel will be more of an option. So, I don't really know where you're getting off lecturing me about how my non-existent "wife" is spending millions of "my" dollars on "dorky drapes" and a house 2-3 times bigger than we need, but I'm going to guess you're taking a page out of your own history, because it certainly isn't mine.