Relationship Poll (for COUPLES)

My husband and I are completely monogamous, and would like to keep it that way. We are, however, open to the idea of watching other couples have sex, and maybe even having another couple watch us. But NOT swapping. Just observing. We have a very tight emotional and sexual bond, and neither of us are willing to let another person come in between that.

 

We swap only with one other couple, 3 or 4 times a year. Sometimes we are all in the same room, sometimes not. I also have fun with the other woman, when we are all together. The guys don't touch each other.

I haven't been involved in similar, regular arrangements with others, but this other couple has plenty of experience. I don't think they ever tried monogamy except when she was trying to get pregnant and when her girls were very young. I have known them both for a long time, but this arrangement is only a few years old.

They have always been firm believers that this sort of thing is for stable and secure couples only. You can't relax and enjoy swapping if you don't have great trust in your partner.

 

My husband and I are part of a circle of five couples who have many things in common. We get together as desired for a weekend of partying, conversation, activities, and,…, sex! I guess there aren’t any rules as far as how often we rendezvous, it’s just initiated by a phone call or e-mail, there’s follow-up discussion, and we finally agree on a weekend and location. It just happens whenever a couple in the group is interested in a fun-filled weekend and initiates the action. Thus far the getaways have all been at a mutually agreed upon destination. That allows for freedom without the fear of happening upon someone we know from home. Thus far we’ve just done this as two couples getting together; no three, four, or five couple orgies.

I agree there has to be a lot of trust. Both my husband and I were sexually active when we were younger. We understand the difference between fun sex and emotional involvement. So far there haven’t been any issues with us or any of the other couples. It’s just good adult fun!

 

Hubby and I are leaving later this afternoon for a little weekend rendezvous with another couple in a sunny location! :sunny:
Grandma and grandpa have our daughter for a few days!

 

monogomouse

 

My husband and I have an open relationship, but so far I'm the only one who has taken advantage of it. Mine is more like an open affair, though, since I have only one lover. The two of them are enough for me, and we're all very happy.

 

Sexually open but emotionally closed relationship. Prior agreement before either with anyone by the other and a "no" is a no without question. Sex outside the marriage is a fuck buddy only thing. Been married 17 years and hubby was guy #10. I am at #42 but granted I do work in porn

 

My wife and I have been strictly monogamous for the last 39 years. However, with we are in our late 20s, we had a very energetic MFM threesome going with the two of us and my best friend. I really miss that. I loved watching him fuck my wife!

 

I am a one man woman and I seek the same in my guy when I look for a relationship.

Right away that is a topic that comes up so its not confused later. I dont care how many he was with before or after if we split up but while with me I want our feelings to be about us and no other can get between that. If a guy doesnt see it that way its easy to just walk away before anything happens.