You never answered my original question, would you even be saying this if she was 4 days older? Probably not.
IShe was 17, it doesn't matter if she fucked 20 guys or you were her first. It doesn't make it right. I know it seems like it is easier to please a 17-year-old than a woman your own age. A 17-year-old will give you instant gratification, telling you how wonderful you are. I understand this makes you feel like more of a man. But, work on yourself a bit more and be patient, maybe don't date for awhile and then find a girl your own age and don't expect instnt gratification.
If you're in high school you're a kid. You spend all day with other kids. You're usually not allowed to leave campus, they call your parents if you don't go to class. I mean her parents took her fucking phone away because she got in trouble. Can you spell CHILD any clearer?
I happen to like you too, and thanks. At least a few of you aren't trying to rip me a new asshole. I made a mistake, but those of you that are saying its all my fault just because she is a few days from her 18th, that's hilarious. If she was a few days older, we wouldn't be having this conversation.
Wow, I always wondered why we never talkd before, now I think I see why. That was pretty uncalled for. For your information this is the first and only girl I've ever dated that was younger than me, and every girl I have been with has given me as you call it, "instant gratification" because I'm a nice guy, who is caring, romantic, and pretty selfless in bed. Thnik whatever you want to think, but you don't have to try to beat me down when you don't even know the first thing about me.
i'm was talking you4ia or whatever that prick's name is. and all the other guys who do the "nice guys finish last" bullshit. what crap. you i like. you're a good person.
I'll be fine anyways, I always land on my feet. But I do have a fucking killer stomach virus and I feel like I could throw up a lung or something.
I don't kow you. I do work with kids though, a lot of fucked up teens who get involved with older guys. If there were no older guys who dated children there wouldn't be this issue. I can tell you, if you were with a 17-year-old I worked with your ass would be in jail, not because I don't like you, but because I know how it can devestate girl's self-image and it is against the law. I think you are being selfish-poor me, poor me, I got fucked over. You ever think she might be a decent girl who realized she was in over her head? You think maybe she might feel bad about herself for fucking a grown man? You think maybe she thought she was being cool and told everyone and is now having to deal with a whole bunch of shit? You think she might be dealing with a lot of crap from her parents now? Not everything is about YOU and YOUR feelings. Sometimes you need to step outside being a victim to realize you may have victimized someone else.
I am not going to back down and say 'Oh yeah, you are a good guy, so it's okay'. Because, it's not okay. I can say I felt horrible for you when allt hat drama was going on witht he chick who used to post on here. I used to always read your posts, about your T-shirt shops and everything. I found you very interesting and always empathized with you. Fucking a 17 year-old hasn't changed my opinion of you, but not being able to see her point and further more, expecting her to handle a relationship like an adult has.
Of course I've thought about her feelings, and if you think any different then you really don't know me. You are the one painting me out to be selfish and not concerned with anyone else but myself. Clearly you don't know me at all.