oh good god. we're back to the "bitches don't like nice guys" thing again because a 17 year old decided not to settle down with a much more mature guy? there is a huge difference between 17 and 25. he got some good sex and a fun crush. he put too much into it. learn and move on.
every notice how all the nice guys who get screwed always act like fuckng pricks? makes me wonder if they were ever nice guys int he first place. likely not. i bet this guy right here was a dick from the get go and all the women who "screwed him over" knew something he didn't.
I don't know, but I know that I don't EVER want to be as bitter as that guy. Makes things a lot harder....
and they whine, piss & moan and feel sorry for themselves, act like babies and emotional black holes, then label themselves "nice guys." what bullshit.
they just hide their misogyny briefly and let it fly the minute they have it "proven" they're right. i can smell a guy like that a mile away.
I agree. There's no point wanting someone who is not attracted to you. Or trying to get someone to give up their teen years just for you. The moral of the story is, only date kids if you are a kid, too. (no, just being a kid at heart doesn't count)
Yea, that's why I just assumed that he has seen everything. I mean who can argue with someone who calls themself master!
It's you're. YOU ARE. Y-o-u-'-re! "Your stupid" is probably the phrase in the English language that pisses me off most because it's grammatically incorrect and completely contradictory. Anyway, the real reason I replied again was to tell Snoop that I don't mean to be harsh or mean or bitchy, but I told you this chick was going to hurt you and you went in fully knowing what could happen, but you did it anyway. It was your life lesson to be learned and I think you did learn from it. And the only reason age matters at all in this situation is maturity. Remember back to when you were in high school...the world was a LOT different back then and things were a lot easier. She hasn't lived on her own, she hasn't had any reason to settle down, she has completely different goals than you more than likely. And you have to work VERY hard at serious relationships, they're insanely hard work, and I highly doubt she was even close to prepared to deal with that. She just wasn't ready for the kind of relationship you had in mind. But I am not going to sugarcoat my feelings towards it because giving you sympathy and sappy words isn't going to do anything but set you up for more hurt in the long run and I'm sorry, but a real friend won't do that. I'm only going to be completely honest with you. You're a good friend and I don't like to see you hurt, but if I'm not 100% honest about my feelings towards it, then I'm not helping you overcome it, I'm holding you back and I won't do that.