Love the feedback. Tonight was MUCH better. Got the pelvic thing down, stopped worrying as much and enjoyed it more. I even think my muscles got used to it.
Has anyone here tried kneeling or squatting on a guys lap on the couch facing away from him with your feet on the couch, not the floor? I had no idea what I was doing.
Kneeling on the couch is not happening for me. My hips just won't do it. If I crouch, I have to face him. Sitting in his lap and using my arms and legs is easier. Of course, that doesn't mean I stop using my pelvis.
What's the name of the belly dance maneuver I need to practice for this? 'Cause I can't seem to keep him in when I ride for more then 3 strokes, and lack endurance even with frequent pauses.