sad and ashamed :-(

Thanks!

 

your very welcome:grouphug: keep smilin an shinin':sunny:an dont worry, be happy! :2thumbsup:

 

We all do things that we later regret, though any guilt is only such if we let it.
Do not let it get to you - it is; I feel, important to view it as a silly mistake and put it behind you.
Do not dwell on it , move on and remember it, only to not do it again.
If it arises again, brush it off as "well it was a mistake, I was young, drunk etc - even though it may hurt inside, damage can only be done, and cause satisfaction for others of dubious character if they are seen for it to cause hurt.
If/when ever my silly/stupid things come back to embarass me, then I am determined not to let them ruin my life.
Good luck

 

Everything you have said here is absolutely true. The outcome has me emotionally spiraling and thinking all kinds of awful things.ex. that he's laughing at me, at a part of my body. And it definitely is sickening my spirit so much so that im walking around with a knot in my stomach which is very unhealthy.

 

What risk? She said that her face was not visible. This approach seems very low risk to me.

You can't have a serious relationship without being seen naked. Would it seem better to you somehow if he had waited to reject her after sleeping with her one time? It seems to me that if somebody is looking for something other than what you have to offer, you want to find that out as soon as possible, and stop wasting your time.

I'd much rather deal with a guy who is very honest and up-front about what he is looking for, rather than a guy who plays games and tries to come across looking nicer than he is. I've dealt with both kinds, many times.

Girls have been sending explicit pics to guys online, and by cell phone, for years. It's old news. It's just another part of the game now. It's not a big deal, unless someone is foolish enough to include her face in explicit shots, and the pics start floating around.

 

SadOne = Scarlett Johansson???

 

My thing is this guy is very forward when he doesn't like something as I've known him for two years. The fact that he is so silent is making my stomach turn because he knows that its not something that i usually do. I almost feel like its a psychological game instead of just telling me outright "Sorry I don't like it" hes torturing me silently.

 

you made it awkward by forcing him to beg you for pictures, when that's a normal progression in this situation. It's like having to beg for a kiss in high school..... even if you think you want it and will beg in the moment, later you realize that you're the only one into it, and that you're working on totally different wavelengths, you wanna get down and the other person only grudgingly does the very littlest things after you humiliate yourself trying to convince them to let their hair down.

So...... pictures are not a big deal and are surely a lesser deal than simply having sex, which is not a big deal either.... Yet you're still ashamed that you sent him pictures.... how could he possibly want to hang around in that situation, dealing with self-loathing and other problems, which are NOT conducive to sexy situations?

 

Alright. I see your point.

 

You're inventing shit in your head. The situation isn't that complicated. Guys are not that complicated.

One more piece of advice: When this thread is over, make a new username that doesn't say or imply anything about being sad. This isn't going to last forever. You don't want to carry that baggage around for as long as you are here with us.

Good point. Most girls would have sent nude pics much sooner.

 

Ok I will.

 

he said he was driving... he probably got excited by your boob pics and drove off a bridge or something.