sadomasochism

I can tell you've never met her. You do realise she's from Essex, right?

 

So do you think about your parents doing it often? There's help out there if you want it.....

 

I should bloody well hope my parents don't do it anymore... my dad's been dead for a few years... eeuuarrghh...


Fly...

 

Perhaps your mum..... no, even I'm not gonna go there!

 

God, you're such a charming bunch!!!!

Of course I won't! Except tying him up does have some advantages, like eating ALL the icecream and going out on my own :X

 

im a sexual perv.. i'll do anything if the girl wants me to but she has to be the one to say it.. im more than happy just chuggin along in a dok like sexual relationship.. but i'm also as openminded as the sea is deep so i'm always up for anything... but will wait for the suggestion to come from elsewhere..
i dont need it to get off... but wouldn't mind getting off on it

 

Tried it, went too far.

Didn't really like it

 

I dunno. I have always been kinky.I am just naturally different.Guess that is why I am a hippy.Spanking leads to harder erections.

 

Tried both, love both.

 

yeah i can do either in the right frame of mind, i prefer other stuff more though.

 

no no no no! i like telling people what to do, tidy this up, get me this, etc etc

 

The poll is poorly phrased. Sadomasochism and dominance/submission are two different things. I'm a dominant type, but that doesn't mean I like to inflict pain.

 

why don't you educate us, post some imformation on this topic, for those of us that don't know
S

 

Been there on both counts..and its cool, as long as its just a game.

 

Sadomasochism = the infliction/receiving of pain for sexual gratification.

Dominance/submission = A dominant partner being "in charge" to some degree over a submissive partner.

Ergo, while sadomasochism by it's nature features a Dominant/submissive relationship (the inflicter of pain is clearly being dominant over the receiver), there are many other ways to express a D/s relationship and many people who enjoy D/s may not like sadomasochism at all.

People express this in all sorts of ways, some confined to the bedroom, some more openly. Some submissives like to act as a slave (sexual or otherwise) to their master/mistress. Some like to be put in bondage. Some like to be trained as a "pet". Some girls like to hook up with an older man and be a good obediant "daughters" to their chosen "Daddy" (Which a lot of people will find creepy, of course.) None of this necessarily involves the infliction of pain.

There's a whole subculture of this stuff and you don't have to look too far to find it.

 

I love being submissive (enough said!)
S

 

not my cup of tea personally. an ex tied me to a bed once but whips and chains and the like can take a running jump.

 

I'd like to think that i'm open to most things, but the truth is my skin is sensitive, and i don't get off on pain, either giving or receiving. At least i haven't so far in me life, anyway.

 

Tried both - liked it, but too often and it'd eventually get boring. Sadomasochism, however, is a big no-no. A little light whipping, possibly, but nothing that draws blood or causes bruising.
Plus it's quite fun to tie your partner up, get 'em all hot and bothered, then just go and read a book for a while. Come back in the room, say "oh - you still here? Oops" then get on with the rest of the sex

 

A silk cord dipped in water doesnt break the skin or leave bruises...but it has a wonderful sting to it !!!!!!!!