Scared to hook up due to long inner labia!

i would ignore all those telling you he wont mind. it is true that the problem is not uncommon, and that it is pretty normal

but he might not like it, some people do and some people do not mind. it's sort of blase, if he isn't keen you shouldn't take it personally - you'll meet somebody else who likely is.

should a blonde be ashamed if her crush prefers a brunette?

 

It would not be a problem for me.
So relax, and enjoy. It's normal!

 

Ok here is my 2 cents,

If it's causing you some sort of problems physically. Then you should see a doctor about it. Otherwise, leave it alone.

This is all part of the sickness of society that we have. From hair to make up to epilation to now plastic surgery for vaginas. You, like so many other people, are constantly being told that "you're ugly" or "not perfect" or "not worthy being loved unless... " And it's all a bunch of lies and garbage designed to make you feel bad about yourself so that you'll go out and spend your money.

Now personally,
I don't care what a woman's vagina looks like. I tend to like the vagina that is in front of me. And I hate to say it, but a lot of men are like me. We just want some loving and to be accepted despite our own insecurities.

Therefore who cares if your inner lips are longer.

When my wife gave birth to our first child. She suddenly found herself "bigger" down there. And she started to prefer "bigger" penetrations. She still loved me but we had to adapt. Then when my wife gave birth to our second child it was by C-section. Well, for some reason things went from big back to small. Then came our third child and her pubic hair started to turn gray. (She was 34 years old with gray hair. None of which was on her head)

As for me, I put on some weight, lost some hair and teeth but my wife adored me. What I'm saying is when someone loves you. They accept you for you. No strings attached.

So if a man doesn't like your inner lips. Then you tell him to haul his insecure butt out of your bed and you find yourself someone that's going to love you and your vaginal lips just the way they are. .

 

There are some of us guys that like large inner labia more than the little small-lipped quims.

I think that each guy has a slightly different idea of what he thinks is the ideal pussy. I like long slits, hair on the outer labia, big inner lips, and a musky scent. In reality, I don't expect to run into such a pussy very often. I expect that pussy a woman is likely to be different from my fantasy pussy, and that's all ok.

 

A little bit late maybe, but here is my oppinion:
Here in Europe we barely care about standards. The Feeling is what really matters.
And now the most interrresting part: I'm the mother of two girls (well, they're full-size women now, one of them marrying in a few weeks).
Good Lord gave me a nice pair if long inner wings, which I've stretched since I was 12, following a natural impulse. No one has told me about stretching. When my daugters became teenagers, I became to teach them how to stretch their inner lips. Now all three are the happy owners of nice long wings, hanging out about 2 cm (1 incch cca).
My husband is still happily playing with my "butterfly" and none of my daughters have ever complained about their "butterflies" either.

So, my dear, don't worry. Or, better said: if you were in Europe, you shouldn't have any reason to worry.

The acceptance or rejection of one or other of the body appearance varies widely between cultures. This matters very little, though. Just be yourself and do what you feel is good for you. Good luck!

 

I wish that was the only thing "wrong" with my body... lol

 

There`s porn specifically devoted to large labia and clit, did you know that? :biggrin:

BTW, I resent the sexist comments about all men want is to penetrate a girl. It`s like, "oooga-boooga! me male! me penetrate! me see nothing else! oooga-booga! penetrate!"

Assholes!

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There`s only one way to find out, sis.

 

Don't be self-conscience about it. Eavh vagina is different. They'll all lovely though. Protuding inner lips make your vagina even more lovely. Like a spreading orchid.

Like Orison, I know I'd love it. Now and when I was younger.

 

You could try giving him a bit of credit. So far you have given no real reason, apart from your own preconceptions that he should not consider you perfectly normal in every way.

 

I'm surprised no one has asked for photos. Your vagina is perfect the way it is and if your boyfriend doesn't think so... Kick him in the ass and show him the door.

 

:hurray: all my applauses!

 

Sweetie dont worry about it, your pussy is perfecly normal. I can promise when he sticks his tongue in it and kisses those little lips you will forget all about it I am bi and I have seen a lot of pussy, and I have played with several that look like yours probably some that protrude even more so and never thought twice, he will not either. if you want him, drop your panties and let him have you, your pretty little pussy is going to drive him wild.

 

I'd like to see a picture, then I can better evaluate the situation!

 

no worries!! let him go I wouldn't care! :2thumbsup:

 

get over it. seriously. any man will just be happy to get pussy.

personally I love large labia (ok I love all sizes/shapes of pussy)...and believe me I'm a common guy.

 

Like they all said, you're perfectly normal and I hope by now you've hooked up and it was fantastic. Count me among those that find that very natural and attractive looking.

 

why the fuck do you think that matters lol?