School Bullies

yea, its not something i am proud of

but it happened
and i've grown up quite a bit

shit, i'm even good friends with most the kids i bullied in HS anyways

 

awww. you're such a cuddle bear.

 

really, it was more of an initiation beating into the group haha...thats what it really turned out to be

 

Mmm, in grade 5 something similar happened to me with my girlfriends. My best friends' parents were separating and my best friend was too ashamed to tell everyone in our little group that she had to move away, change schools because her father was having an affair with another woman.

So I told them all calmly for her. This one girl for some reason didn't believe me and started badgering my best friend to find out if it was true. My best friend was just crushed and humiliated because this was during class when we were working on a project, so she remained mute and said nothing as she bowed her head. I decided not to say anything from her response and kept it to myself as my friends dotted on my best friend and shamed me for being wrong.

For the end of the school year, I was accused of being a liar and then it all spiraled out from there. The next year in the fall, my friends all came to my birthday party, then a week later they decided to collectively "ditch" me and exclude me from the gang. I was pretty crushed and came home crying of course. But thankfully I have a good mom, and things turned out okay.

I suppose that I participated in some bullying myself. I used to tease people on my schoolbus mostly. Since I rode one of those short yellow buses to school, we used to call it the "Old Tin Can" I got to know the people that rode it very well. I used to tease them for being a goody-goody or being dumb or whatever. But it was never a constant thing where I'd pick on someone. I teased people sometimes very harmlessly and other times with the intentions of causing some harm.

Anyway, I was smacked around as a kid by my dad, so I think I had it in for the goody-goody kids who had perfect families when I teased someone. I had to express myself somehow, and I did grow up and learn not to hurt people from what happened to me in grade 6. It kind of put some of the things that I had been doing into perspective.

 

People use to throw food at me, once someone threw a soda can at me

 

i totally get that.

 

and i guess it could be called hazing too...pretty much the soccer players on my team

 

I was made fun of by the girls as well. Mostly the cheerleaders. They hated me for the fact that I started puberty first and all the guys lost all ability to use their brains around me. Because of that I was branded a whore. It always pissed me off so much because the actual whores were the ones that were calling me those names.

The guys didn't taunt me, but they would try to bully me in a sexual way. I had to always make sure that I was never alone anywhere. So I made sure that I became friends with some of the biggest and meanest guys in the school and other schools. That way if I couldn't fight for myself then they could.

 

I was a bully...untill highschool...

no real bad memories....only deep regret

 

Hazing is completely different; I had to go through hazing myself on my first boy scout camporee.

On a bitter cold night in Maine, I was jumped during a hike and dragged through the snow all the way back to our cabin


Hotwater

 

yeah, i got huge bobs when i was 10. from then on, i was "slut." i also lived across the street from all the boys that all the girls were in love with. they were peepers. we had a pool. my older brother was popularity god, which means he had more enemies than friends. but he was GOOD at winning fights, too. how galling. so...there was always ME. huge titted goober slut nerd with this damned mouth. ah, well, it all ended very good for me.

 

hazing changed for me when i got to college...

 

(((((((hugs))))))) that's probably harder than being the innocent victim.

 

I hate boobs sometimes. I wish there was some way of shrinking them when you're young and everyone especially your peers are unable to see them.

 

I was picked on in elementary and middle school, but never really bullied. I had buck teeth up until around 6th grade when I got braces, so I was mocked a lot for that. Plus I was always just a weird kid, so I am sure that had something to do with it also.

 

I would wear a minimizing bra and a sports bra that was too small for me so it would flatten mine down. I hated having breast in high school.

 

i loved girls having breasts early in HS

 

Me too. Sports bras gave me that uni-boob effect. I loved wearing baggy t-shirts too, instead of those girlie baby-tees all my friends were wearing. I didn't look all boob in my shirts when I wore regular tees.

 

I still wear baggy t-shirts. Of course I have to buy guy t-shirts but eh whatever.

Fitz I think only a guy would like that.

 

i am a man