Who are you calling the usual SUSPECTS? What suspects? This thread is about fantasizing about teenage boys. That is NOT a crime. I have said that it was not necessarily a bad thing. That is NOT a crime. You assume too much, my friend.
i'm actually reaching the point where i would like to get glammed up, go out, find the perfect boy and have sex with him. but where the fuck will i meet a cute 16 year old boy that would be ok to loose his virginity to me? i mean why it has to be so complicated, i'm sure there are plenty of boys who would be glad to do it but for example i guess it is almost bedtime for them and i only seem to find them in bus stations -- and i can't go and pick up a guy at bus station?!? ou and he has to have that haircut yeah this is all about the looks and youth
I understand where you're coming from, but this thread is about TEENS. Besides, they don't necessarily have to be "out" of the picture, per se. You can still fantasize about them without acting it out. Trust me, some sex therapists suggest this.
RE: i'm actually reaching the point where i would like to get glammed up, go out, find the perfect boy and have sex with him. but where the fuck will i meet a cute 16 year old boy that would be ok to loose his virginity to me? i mean why it has to be so complicated, i'm sure there are plenty of boys who would be glad to do it but for example i guess it is almost bedtime for them and i only seem to find them in bus stations -- and i can't go and pick up a guy at bus station?!? That's what the "fantasy" stuff leads to. It's a sign of mental illness.
There are LOTS of them, trust me. The question is finding the right one for you... This, I can not help you with.
RE: There are LOTS of them, trust me. The question is finding the right one for you... This, I can not help you with. And now you're counselling her to go and commit a crime, diddling a kid. Sick.
this is so funny is it mentally ill for a 20 year old girl to have sex with 16-17 yr old boy? well it doesn't seem that extreem but then again i can't see any point to argue with you, i guess you have some other issues otherwise you wouldn't care so .. *mentally ill and ok with it * ( a bit frustrated though )
im sorry but if you where a bloke people would be jumping down your neck. i think thats seriuously fucked up. I just started a thread about woman who like kids - but on there we are against it not sticking up for it - makes me wanna puke. IU seriously hope you dont take your fanatsy further cause you WILL fuck up peoples lifes.
What the... How on earth CAN you get to that conclusion?? All I said was it was OK to fantasize, and all she implied was that she is willing. That doesn't mean anything. I can tell you right now I've fantasized about my 15 year-old net-sister, and she KNOWS it fully well. Does that mean I'm going to go over to her house and rape her? OF COURSE NOT! I absolutely LOVE my net-sister to pieces, and I only wish her happiness. You jump a hundred miles to a false conclusion and, in turn, accuse the innocent people for something that has never been committed by them.
So if I fantasize about an older guy(say, I'm 17 and this guy is in his mid 20's) that somehow is wrong and will lead to that guy being a pedophile. WOW! I can somehow relate because I want older guys, but that's purely because all the guys my age I know are afraid of sex. I don't see anything wrong with a couple years. Unless the older person in question is purposely preying on the teens innocence in some way.
RE: How on earth CAN you get to that conclusion?? All I said was it was OK to fantasize, and all she implied was that she is willing. That doesn't mean anything. If you are in the first place, it means you're wired wrong. And people who obsess about things that are sick will eventually act. Hey, you're the one telling her that her fantasy can come true...
Well, I use the term "pedoPHOBIA". You know by now I find you to be VERY attractive, and I'm 29. What the hell is so wrong with that, right? I mean, am I gonna somehow track you down and sexually molest you, or somthing?? I mean, COME ON!!! Well, I trust that you don't think I'd ever do that. But anyway, some people jump to conclusions. It really bugs me, but I guess I'd have to get used to it even on these FREE SPEECH forums.
they're youthful, healthy, beautiful, innocent and clean. all the things that we no longer are. i'm not going to set myself on fire for finding that attractive, but i'm not gonna cross that line, either. not because it's unnatural, but because our society has deemed it shameful in these times. whether or not that is right or proper or whatever, i don't care. it's something that's gonna stick in their minds and potentially harm them emotionally. i don't wanna hurt anyone that way. that's horrible.
no, but i am. lol. it's just the memory of how we felt at that age, the eagerness most experienced, the newness of it all. it's reflected in our perceptions of their youthful beauty. a memory, their health, their energy. it's beautiful and there's no denying it.
AT, I wasn't contradicting you at all! I just hate how automatically it's looked at as some kind of fetish(the age thing.) If someone is dating someone purely because of the age factor playing in then it's a problem. But hell, there are age differences amongst couples everywhere. I think it's stupid that it's called "school boys", that takes it to a whole other degree than just being about age.