Sex is unpleasant for me

what do you do about hormone problems???

 

Perhaps you should consider exploring other areas of your body? You could enjoy stimulation to your breasts or something as simple as a backrub could get you in the mood enough to enjoy contact with ur pussy?

 

i can get aroused. Sex doesn't feel good to me no matter what.

 

I havent read all of this thread so I don't know if you've explained...what about doing it to yourself? Or using a vibrator etc?

 

He could be doing it wrong.

 

Yeah, I have used dildos and vibrators. Still just as unpleasant as it is with a partner. I don't feel any kind of pleasure when being penetration period, even with fingers. The only thing that I can feel and that feels good to me is clitoral stimulation. But I want more than that, I want the total experience of getting enjoyment out of sexual intercourse. I want to feel the amazing gratification that other women say about a penis being inside of them.

 

I think you just have the lack of sex drive. Try Sentia pills for women, they increase libido. Really good thing my girl says.

 

I don't have a low sex drive. I masterbate pretty regularly

 

I used to have this exact same problem. I had a problem called vulvodynia, which made penetration to be very uncomfortable and sometimes painful. When it wasn't painful, it still didn't feel good. I saw a physical therapist who was skilled in pelvic floor disorders. She hooked me up to a biofeedback machine so I could see exactly what my body was doing. It helped me control my pelvic floor muscles and reduce the muscle spasms that were causing a lot of the pain.

My fiance has helped me a lot with extended foreplay and a lot of focus on me. I can even orgasm from vaginal sex, which I never thought I'd be able to do. Read up on vulvodynia. There are a lot of exercises you can do on your own, without a therapist.

 

Maybe your not just into penetration it seems. have your man go down on you on a more frequent basis. Sounds like you will enjoy that more lol

 

All I can say is...different strokes for different folks...not everyone gets off the same way. Like I said before you seem just not into penetration. Enjoy it for him, but go after your just rewards lol

 

1. That doesn't mean you have high sex drive. 2. Sentia has a comprehensive effect on woman’s organism. It just makes a woman sexually healthier.

 

From what I have read of your posts, it sounds like your problems are psycho-sexual meaning negative programming from your mother.


It sounds like your mother is religious, from what I have read about sexual dysfunction most of the more severe sexual problems have been traced back to strict religious upbringing.

I hear it in your writings words like "dirty". Reprogram your mind with positive words that relate to sex.

Making love can be the most incredibly beautiful thing with the right partner, or it could be a horrible nightmare with the wrong one.

I think you need to take some time out and just sleep together and cuddle each other, you need a very careing man and lots of time to come to terms with the negative brain-washing that you have received from your parent/s.

I'm sure in time you will succede at improving your sex life.

Oh yeah try Okomoto condoms they are more comfy.

 

I don't have a low sex drive. when i was in a relationship i had oral sex (giving and receivng) all the time and orgasmed that way.

 

I just advise you to read about Sentia. It's very helpful supplement for women. I know it from my wife who had lot's of problems before using it.