But I want to say to all the women who have posted here thus far.... That kinda witty banter, is rare in guys, especially the "nice, proper" guys who are constantly told by society to play by the rules and stuff. Society at large really puts a nail in the coffin on how to flirt, within the guise of anti-sexual harassment stuff they start telling us in school. There's a very fine line between harassment and flirting, and a lot of that is perception on the parts of both individuals.