A lot of these guys are just scared to death of girls.... Some of them will unfortunately stay sexist, but a lot of them will turn out just fine... My sister has a friend who used to have a motorcycle.....my brother was very young (4 or 5 I think) and he couldn't understand what a girl was doing with a motorcycle....so one day he actually wrote her a ticket! She has kept it all these years...it was a priceless moment... That same brother is now in his 20's and is getting married next summer....
Fair point. Looks are apparantly everything in high schools. Some mates of mine thinking they're fat when they are the total opposite because all the "hot" chicks who could get guys (the guys use them for sex n shit) and all the guys who couldn't get anything of 'em turn into evil scathing little bitches.. There are middle aged people who are saying how they can't understand us teens these days.. TEENS cant understand teens these days.. Your either too fat, too short, too much pimples, hair isnt cool, SHES a skank, HEs gay.. LEAVE THE BITCHYNESS BEHIND. peace billie.
oh my god! i reckon! i used to be friends with all these people (who are the 'popular bitchy' people) and they would just say all this shit like 'oh, i dumped him cause i didnt like his hair' or something. im known as the person who doesnt care how people look with all my friends. all people should care about is personality
People seriously dump people because of their hair?? Lol!!! I must admit, I've always felt totally out of touch with my own generation, and now I feel really old in comparison to all the proper teenagers (which sucks but hey!). The sexist guys either grow out of it, or suffer later. My brother's now 18 and he used to be a right little git when he was 13/14, wouldn't do anything at all (women's work u know...) but now he's a lovely guy so hopefully that happens to lots of other guys too. Wow, rambling!
At that age the boys can be influenced either way. It mostly depends on how the male role models in their lives act.
i don't TOTALLY buy that. attraction is a whole package. a person who doesn't take care of themselves may have too much baggage for a good relationship.
They'll just be taught by their mothers to hate their fathers. Seriously fucking up their overall mentalities... If it wasn't so profitable sociologists and psycologists would study it more. We will know in 50 years.
This is true; but, people who can look past the physical at first might find themselves more attracted later on. When my bf and I first met, I honestly didn't look at him "that way" at all - just thought he was a cool chill guy who me and my kitten could hang out with in the middle of a crazy woods... but after talking to him crazily and finding so much in common... The overwhelming mental attraction kinda seeped over into the physical. Now I find him more attractive than any other man I've ever known!
yeah, my beloved perfect man was much the same. at first he wasn't totally my type, or i was just totally intimidated. he became the man to whom i compare all others, & find them all to be not as good.
I was in a Hot Topic once. I saw one and had heard how bad they were, so I checked it out. It was bad. Fin.
If it is in the mall you can bet I don't go there... Great advice. THESE are friends you don't need. I remember being made fun of by "friends" of mine for having a boyfriend that was shorter than me, and I guess they didn't find him to be a hunk of a man (he was a scrawny little thing). Well, I ditched the friends, kept the boyfriend and even though I no longer date him, that guy was and is a better friend to me than those girls ever were.
i always found myself doing extremely embarassing or socially unacceptable things to drive away the "fair weather" types. i didn't need the shallow twits around me.
For every sexist, abusive, pig with his intelligence located in his genitals, theres a scheming superficial bitch, who will use her sexuality to tread on men and women alike. No-one's perfect, and all we can do is stick people who don't show these ego qualities. They are the people, who, no matter how much they have and get, are, in truth, desperately unhappy and don't even know who they are... they let the social illusion tell them what to be, and they are lost. Because they are young, they will either learn and add good to the world, or stay ignorant and die unhappy. meh...It's their karma.
I guess a good response to someone dissin' your partner would be something like: "OH PRAISE ALLAH! I'm so glad you don't have to date her/him. It's so wonderful that your opinion doesn't matter! OMGZ! You must feel sooo left out?? "