Share your body insecurities...well help you get over it!

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by GreenButterflyDaisy, Oct 12, 2005.

  1. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    I have the same problem, but it's not because of being tall, it's because I'm short. Almost every single pair of pants I buy drag on the floor and have to be hemmed. Even with shoes that have some height to them, the pants still drag.
     
  2. EmbraceInnerPeaches

    EmbraceInnerPeaches Member

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    I used to really really hate how big my nose was, and then i got nose surgery, I know thats against some peoples way of going about an insecurity but i no longer feel bad about my nose..... but I found something else~ chubby stomach ! if all of the insecurities were fixed i think we could ALL find something wrong with our bodies. its a mental thing.
    The thing I hate worse about bodies is health~like when you get sick physically, have panic attacks, having depression those things suck badly
     
  3. celtgrrl

    celtgrrl batty woman

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    does your face count? cause i don't like my face much. my nose is crooked, my forehead is shiny, and i have no lips. plus people always say i have no affect and think i am depressed even if i am not.

    ok about my body i have always hated my breasts cause they are too soft and flop with no bra on. i prefer to wear one. i like their size tho, 34 B.

    my legs are really thick, sometimes guys like them and sometimes they hate them. they are shapely, but big. i used to really hate them, sometimes i still do.

    i used to love my tummy as it was very flat and firm but it's getting soft and thicker now.

    and stretch marks and cellulite arg. sometimes i think why is cellulite considered so ugly when so many women have it??? why isn't it just normal?
     
  4. wiggy

    wiggy Bitch

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    i have a big tummy - im 5'9 and i think my stomach is to big!! its out of proportion to the rest of my body!!!!!
     
  5. pabsy

    pabsy Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    not sure my contribution will help much....

    i'm not perfect and i'm certainly not beautiful... but i'm happy with my body and the skin i'm in....

    theres no such thing as perfection...but looking at all your pics...you are all beautiful despite how you feel about yourselves :)
     
  6. Lilyrayne

    Lilyrayne Chrisppie

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    They are called "Sweet Nothings" from maidenform. I found them at walmart, for 10 bucks a piece. They are my substitute for those Ipex bras at Victoria's secret, which also work awesome with my boobs but cost WAY to damned much. The only thing is you can't put them in the dryer. They are fine in the washer but if you put them in the dryer, they break down and don't fit right anymore. I just hang mine to dry.
     
  7. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    i have really big arms. they used to be muscular, but after quitting weightlifting for drugs, they turned flabby. for some reason the flab everywhere else never bothered me, i know i can make that go away with a little effort. but i've always had really big arms. oh, i have the cradleboard ass of my father's side of the family, and after one baby, i have a small "flesh apron."

    there, how's that?
     
  8. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    flat native american ass. "cradleboard" for the cradleboards they strap their babies to, supposedly the cause of the "back and a crack" flat, square ass phenomena.
     
  9. cutelildeadbear

    cutelildeadbear Hip Forums Gym Rat

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    Hmm... well, I like most things about myself. I guess without depressing myself I'd have to say my pet peeve at this point is my feet. And I know I can't change them. There is nothing I can do about my wide ugly feet. And people say well they are just feet they aren't supposed to be pretty, but there are plenty of other people out there with cute lil feet. Mine are big and sometimes I have to buy mens shoes cause I just can't find any that fit. *sigh*
     
  10. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    I have really bad stretch marks on mythighs... really bad. and I hate them
    I hate all my little sun bemishes... I just wish they would disappear, they make me feel so ugly
    My hair is ratty as fuck.
    I have flabby arms

    My tummy wobbles when I walk...

    and I always get ingrown toenails.

    and my breasts, theyre so big, and they just sag and look terrible :(
     
  11. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    Retro I'll take your body if you don't want it.. it's perfect!

    I hate quite a few things bout mine.. and my face also:

    * a have shapeless arms, no muscles at all, and the lower part's just as thick as the upper, or the upper just as thin as the lower, however you wanna put it

    * I couldn't feel more insecure about my stomach, it's really weirdly shaped, like there's this line right in the middle of it, between my ribs, I wish it could fuck off, my mom told me it's muscle but it look awful, and the lower part of it is just plain fat, no much of it okay but it needs to be firm and no matter how much I exercise it stays soft, maybe I should just starve myself

    * I think my breasts are too small compared to my hips, not proportional at all it is not feminine, even though I like my hips they're just right, but I'd like my waist a bit thinner so it contrasts with my hips more, but I don't wanna be too curvy either, so.. it's a dilema

    * my legs too long compared to the upper part of my body

    * my knees are weird

    * my ankles aren't thin enough, and I need to get on a bike to get some muscles on the lower part of my legs.. so flat it's disgusting

    * I was born with bags under my eyes

    * my nose is too small

    * my upper lip is too thin compared to my lower

    * my ears are not close enough to my head

    * my hair's too dry

    * oh and I think my chin's too square

    * I want more freckles

    * my ass is flat and low

    ..... and that's all I can think of right now...
     
  12. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    I wonder what we would all look like if we had surgery to change all of our "imperfections" .... my guess is ... pretty fucked up haha
     
  13. nimh

    nimh ~foodie~

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    i have shiny silver stretchmarks all around my middle. i used to be really self conscious about them, but i like them now. they're like tiger stripes. :D

    what i could do without is the way my boobs keep getting closer to the ground. damn that gravity anyways...
     
  14. greengoddess

    greengoddess Nature Freak!

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    my insecurity are my little stretch marks,
    they are getting smaller and getting lighter but i still hate them.
     
  15. greengoddess

    greengoddess Nature Freak!

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    OMG!!!! would you shut up!!! you are sooooo pretty!!!!!!!! :)
     
  16. MoonjavaSeed

    MoonjavaSeed Yeah, Toast!

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    I don't like that I have a shaved head anymore, I feel unattractive.

    My skin isn't as clear as it could be.

    I have a bump on the bridge of my nose, similar to Jewel.

    My boobs are too small.

    I don't like my stomach. I wish it was more flat.

    My butt bugs me because I feel like it is goes on forever down my legs :D

    I have somewhat oddly shaped feet, and I believe that is it. :D
     
  17. loopie

    loopie Member

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    i just checked your gallery and i think you look beautiful with a shaved head! your eyes are beautiful :)
     
  18. loopie

    loopie Member

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    oh, and my name is meg too! MEGS rock! lol
     
  19. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    I'm sorry but I really love your hair...
    I've always wanted to do that with my hair but never had the "balls" to do it..
    I remember watching "The Legend Of Billy Jean" and wanting to have my hair like Helen Slater (it looked like yours) but again never doing it..
    I love your hair and think it looks absolutely beautiful and I just love it...
     
  20. helen

    helen Member

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    Actually, I look pretty good for 49,BUT, I can't stand the xtra skin/stretch marks on my stomach; you see, I had 3 sons and each one was a good size baby--9lbs-7oz was the first then 9lbs-1oz and 8lbs-3oz; the last two were only a year apart. It seems like I havn't bin able to get rid of the xtra stuff over the years and it has caused me to get pretty bummed out about it. Due to age though, I've basically say the hell with it now--unless I get some skin removal operation, it is what it is.
     

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