She loves receiving oral but doesn't like giving it!

Only once was I with someone who didn't like giving me a blowjob. She was 19, and I was her second sex partner, and I was the first that she gave a BJ to. She loved me licking her, and I asked her to suck me, and she started. Furthermore, she was pretty good at it, but then after a few months she said she didn't like giving blowjobs, and she didn't want to do it any more. We were students, and it was just for fun, so I ended it quickly.
I wouldn't have a long term serious relationship with someone who wouldn't enjoy giving me a BJ, or if I wouldn't enjoy licking them. Luckily, my wife and I both love giving and receiving oral. Some of my exes also had such tasty pussies that they got plenty of attention.

 

So do I. Some women say it’s demeaning, not me.

 

Your are very understanding and your wife should be proud of you. Keep it up and enjoy going down on her.

 

I married one of these women. I knew this from the first time we dated. I love her, I love being married to her, I’m completely satisfied sexually eating her pussy, and I’m perfectly fine with no blow jobs.

 

My ex wife was like this. Its annoying and it should work both ways but it doesn't. I sorted it by downloading the Grindr app and getting divorced. That was years ago, my girlfriend now loves sucking me off. Especially when i have shaved my cock, so i keep that bad boy shaven.

 

As much as I love eating pussy, if she doesn’t want to give head, I’d probably leave her alone.

 

I probably would do the same to or not be as generous giving the oral.

 

For those guys with women reluctant to give oral, is it reluctance of having a penis in the mouth all together or more about letting a guy finish in the mouth? What about using her lips without putting the penis in the mouth??
The first time my ex gave me oral without protection she was willing to use her lips on the frenulum when I got close, it still felt good and she didn’t have a drop in her mouth. That was a win – win

 

My wife hates to suck dick. Well, unless she is doing it to get a reaction out of me. Otherwise, she very rarely does it. She also doesn’t like getting her pussy eaten out. It’s not due to my lack of skill. She just would rather have sex instead. I told her if she ever wanted me to just eat her out, we wouldn’t have to have sex. I like doing it that much. If anything ever happened (divorce, death, whatever) and I decided to be in a relationship again, it would be with someone that likes giving and receiving oral. Has to be both. If she loved me eating her out but never wanted to suck dick, I wouldn’t eat her out.

 

I'm not one of those few, but some of my friends do consider it humiliating. It's sad to know there is some out there who enjoy getting it but don't like to return the favor.

Now that's a new one for me. Let me just say that a penis is MUCH easier to clean than a vagina (sadly). Besides, great sex isn't supposed to be a sterile act - bodily fluids are involved. So it can be mentally exhilarating when you allow sex to get a little sloppy / filthy.

 

That’s why men often seek sex elsewhere to get what they don’t get in the relationship, not necessarily oral but it’s often one biggie.
My dad used to, we found out years after my parents were divorced.
While without a GF or fwb I used to see a woman who loved giving oral and deepthroat ing. She said most men who saw her were attached with a partner who refused to give oral even though they received it from their man. While she said it was sad and the women should do more for the relationship and avoid affairs she appreciated the business it gave her. Note: oral is not the only thing but when someone loves it, misses and wants it, many will go get it somewhere else

 

If your hubby asks for something see sexual and wife does not comply, grounds for an affair as far as I'm concerned.

 

I like the way you think!

 

I think I would look for what I don’t have at home. Not the ideal way to go about but we have cravings. I would go down on a married woman who doesn’t receive it at home
Did it before

 

I know a few girls that do NOT like to give or get oral. Most, by now, only give if they have to and they make sure you know that fact. But it's amazing how many women are just as unsatisfied with their men npt going down on them as there are men who are unhappy with getting no oral from their women. On another site similar to this one, a woman commented that getting on her knees now and then and taking a load with a smile on her face is essential to the relationship just the same as she expects to get on her back, open her legs and expect a warm, pointy tongue to satisfy her. If either doesn't want to, the need for oral satisfaction should be expected to be provided by someone else. Many women I talk to about getting head are happy to say yes and are equally as happy to part their own legs. Discretion is expected but none of us are kids any more and we all know how to do it and how to keep it just sex. All of the women I get head from and give back to are involved with their spouses and a few other men and none of us feel jealoous or envy. We feel damned good when we partner up and finish each other.

 

A compromise option is not to take the load in her mouth but just move away. My Mrs does that as it makes her sick .For the same reason i guess she doesn't like oysters

 

I feel fortunate. I have to literally pull my wife's hair to get her off my cock when she's sucking it. Otherwise she'd never stop! Even for the times I do cum in her mouth she keeps sucking. I'm like "there's nothing left to get out!"

 

My Asian wife simply must have her pussy licked before sex. We were dating only a few days before I licked her to orgasm. She is a sweet church going girl,but she sure does love having her pussy licked!

 

Enjoy her pussy as much as possible..

 

I have a fantasy of other men enjoying her. Might be a bit kinky,but i imagine inviting someone up to have sex with my wife and watching