Should I call the manager?

How did you refrain from dumping your mocha on her head??LOL
I just dont like mean people.

 

I'm sorry but trying to get someone fired when jobs are hard to find makes you a ****. So fucking what if someone dissed your weight and your hair. GET OVER IT.

I'm told that I'm fat all the time. I'm also told that I'm ugly and stupid. I don't give a fuck because I know who I am.

 

And to add on to what BSR said.....just so you know....I applied at a vet the other day for a freaking receptionist job and assistant to the vet.....it was in the paper for one week and they had more than 200 applications already. The job market is scarce right now. Do you want to be the one that gets someone fired and give them a harder road in life just because you got your feelings hurt?

That makes me really sad.

 

but if they do it to her they probably do it to other people, we NEED the bitchy people to cull the assholes from the flock.

 

But she is there...doing a job-making people coffee and is suppossed to give good customer service.
I know exactly what I am going to do. I am going to tell her she is being rude and it's not appreciated. Maybe you're right and she doesn't know. then if her insults continue I will tell the manager next time I see her.

 

agreed.....react then. Don't stew over it and then go and tattle the next day. Next time give them a piece of your mind instead of trying to hurt their life.

Personally she would have gotten a huge attitude from me but thats because I get defensive quickly.

 

Man, some people piss me off.

 

I'm sorry it makes you sad, but the way I see it. If the market is so bad, there is someone nice, who really likes people and her job that will snatch it right up.
If the economy sucks you gotta step it up to make it better and realize there's mad competition out there.

 

I went out to eat somewhere and the person that waited my table called me a **** for some reason under her breath, I did not get offended even in the slightest, I did think it was truly hilarious...and maybe I was being a ****, who knows... I guess I fail to see what this lady did that was horrible...maybe I am slow but I just don't understand...

 

I can't go through my life being reactive all the time. I wouldn't have a job, a husband etc. It was 10 minutes before a counseling appoitment, I can't be that way anymore.

 

Bella she could have kids depending on her. Maybe you should over look what she said. Just know that if you cause her to get fired something worse could happen to you down the line....and you will have NO right to bitch or moan about it.

 

exactly...and you know how small fernley is and how long that line is at 8:40 am? Can you imagine the bitchiness paid foward?

 

I would never treat anyone that way at work. i guess we just view the world differently. I feel like me calling is better for the greater good and that person who really wants or needs that job.
People need to follow the social boundaries set by society IF they want to work in a conventional or service oriented enviorment.

 

Mostly I WANT to agree with BSR-
BUT- if you ARE an important regular customer,and friends with the manager I could see, from the managers perspective wanting to know if employees where offending those customers.
If I was in really good with a manager somewhere i was a reg, I COULD see mentioning it on another visit. "hey ,did ya know I think your new coffejock is kinda a cuntface?" .i probably wouldn't go out of my way to stew over it ,or get them fired.
If she acts like that to all customers she probably won't be around long anyway. deep breath, be on your way and know some people just suck

 

right there with you mama.

People have bad days and bad moments. There have been many I have offended inadvertently and some who have offended me. I didn't like them and held a grudge...but that grudge did nothing but piss me off. And to tell you the truth, friendships have been formed out of those situations. People fuck up.

 

I know who I am too and I do not deserve to be insulted. I think it makes you sad that you don't feel the need to set up boundaries and let people know it's not okay.

 

If the job was really that important to her, she wouldn't be rude to customers.

Overweight minimum-wage slave isn't an enviable spot though, so maybe you should just let it go.

 

When she starts disrespecting you,just kill her with kindness,say your eyes are so pretty,or say your hair looks nice today.She will feel bad for being a bitch to you,and with most likely stop.If not go down the street to one of the other StarBucks.I Quoted the wrong one,sorry about that.

 

Bella you are bitching for no goddamn reason. What she said wasn't that bad. You are acting like she looked at you and called you a fat ass, money grabbing whore that doesn't even look good enough as a blonde.



Maybe she has a goal to continue to lose weight and is excited that BR doesn't just cater to sizes 10 and under. And you talk about working out and wanting to lose weight here....you might have mentioned it there once or twice.

And every woman has a comment about hair color. I was told to never dye my hair my natural color because it washes me out. Did I cry and call a manager? No.

Seriously, get over it.

 

Wow! I would like to think that I could be the better man and let that pass... but I would be thinking about it for a few days.

I mean it's just a stupid comment that shouldn't have been said seeing as she/he is being paid to actually serve you.

I might of bit and rained hell fire. The person in question would have lost their job right there and there. If they denied the comment I can assure they will never forget the incident.

Would this achieve anything long term? No.

Would I enjoy the personal justification and self satisfaction? Fuck yeah!